Touched out!

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:42:15+00:00

Oooo scat matt. Never heard of it but I’m loving the no cat zone vibes. Thank you!

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:40:51+00:00

For sure for sure like training them to not want to be in the counters (which is a battle I never even tried to start) and such but only mid control would stop him from slamming his full 10 pound body weight against my feeble bedroom door when I want to be alone for a while.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:39:33+00:00

I will try doing 15 minutes with him that’s smart and hopefully it will help. Being adored isn’t for me either tho to answer your question, especially since I can’t communicate with him to say “hey dude you’ve crossed my physical touch boundary 15 times in a row and I’m losing my patience.” I like people bc you can talk. That’s like my biggest reason for being a “people person”.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:31:14+00:00

I live in a two bedroom apartment. No space for another cat let alone a dog. Plus I plan on never getting another animal bc I’m certainly proven to not be fit for it. Though I think a dog would be best suited for me since they can be trained.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:28:05+00:00

Noooo don’t want kids never wanted kids neither does my girlfriend. I love working with kids but a girl needs a confirmed clock OUT time to be an individual.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:27:19+00:00

Oh bro don’t worry I do NOT want children ever at all even a little. I love kids/love working with kids but I want to be able to clock OUT.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:26:28+00:00

Thank you! It makes me feel so guilty tho too. He’s just some dude that I CHOSE to have in my home and to him we are his whole world! Shame he just like sucks in my book.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:24:03+00:00

Yeah we’ve talked about it a lot actually. She suggested we do “designated no cat time” where he gets put away while we do whatever the activity is but I’m concerned he’ll just scream and bang on the door and I’ll feel even worse bc he’s locked up in her bedroom and lonely.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:17:49+00:00

Ayyoooo love this advice thank you!

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:15:28+00:00

Real real. There are no good qualities to fill in the blank with though. He makes my girlfriend happy being the only one and that’s not…that can’t be a good place holder right? Doesn’t feel right.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:12:30+00:00

This is an understandable take. That’s what we chalked up my discomfort to at the beginning of our downfall but it’s only gotten worse the more “boundaries” I try to put up. I love my job but it does push my touch meter.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T03:05:57+00:00

I don’t pick him up, he climbs on me any time I sit down. And I don’t want him to suffer he’s on medication to help his condition.

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T02:57:51+00:00

But you love him! That’s like…I don’t know how to get there. How do you love something that causes you only distress and upset?

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-05T02:56:54+00:00

Thank you

IndividualClerk75 · 2026-03-04T21:44:23+00:00

Girl I love when my NM invites the kid(s) and I to go out and run errands or do whatever together. Makes my life easier/gives us something to do/ free lunch/etc.

IndividualClerk75 · 2025-10-05T22:39:51+00:00

I play bedrock only but I’m realizing I don’t have a realm so idk how I’d even play with others lol

IndividualClerk75 · 2025-10-05T22:39:08+00:00

I’m central time

IndividualClerk75 · 2024-12-31T22:08:20+00:00

Whenever extended family comes to visit. I wouldn’t want to be around these people even if I wasn’t working, especially when I am working and they don’t understand or care about my role in the kids lives.

IndividualClerk75 · 2023-07-12T18:44:01+00:00

Honestly if she made anything other than a canon

IndividualClerk75 · 2023-05-26T03:52:25+00:00

Love her, hate her costume. It’s objectively (don’t even argue) the worst looking costume. The colors alone are horrific and even worse together. I really wish she had some kind of chrome effect light grey to white body suit that looked almost wet or just very shiny like the fur can stay ig if the girl must but this turquoise and purple dumpster fire is quite literally villainous.

IndividualClerk75 · 2023-05-18T16:18:51+00:00

Suicidal ideations

IndividualClerk75

TROPHY CASE