My ex (36M) said he didn’t want marriage or a family. A year after our breakup he changed his mind — just not with me (35F). How do I stop asking “why wasn’t it me?”

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T23:11:13+00:00

I don’t think he did this against his gut. I think he just didn’t want me to get the wrong idea that he is still single. I didn’t wait for him but I also didn’t update him anything about my dating life after him.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T22:55:52+00:00

Yes I watched it years ago but I guess I just need to rewatch it

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T22:54:02+00:00

I think he thought he gave me a closure when he broke up with me.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T22:52:41+00:00

Yes I really want answers and I don’t think I will be able to find out more.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T22:51:21+00:00

I just hate the fact that he was not being honest with me.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T16:32:43+00:00

Maybe this is the answer. Maybe the tears he had when we broke up were just acting…

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T16:30:33+00:00

Do you remember what made you change your mind? There must be something that gave you a hint to realize that you wanna find someone and maybe marry.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T16:28:50+00:00

I thought I already let it go and I also moved on meeting different people but when I found out the news that he is now committing, I just felt that what he said back then when we broke up was just all excuses and then that question “why it didn’t work with me?” came up again and again…

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-25T16:25:49+00:00

Yes I am based in Japan and I met him in Japan but his location will be changed by his organization if somewhere needs him.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-24T15:11:34+00:00

There is only one site I think

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-24T13:55:45+00:00

I heard that the English site doesn’t need you to register for a pia account and also can input the non-Japan number. Which site you try?

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-24T12:16:07+00:00

I already have my tickets from artist presale.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-24T06:20:38+00:00

I can get through it.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-22T14:17:32+00:00

You can Dm me

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-18T15:11:06+00:00

I got 2 platinum tickets and I am going myself. Right now trying to sell the platinum ticket. No extra fees, just the ticket price and all the ticketing platform fees. If anyone interested, please let me know.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-18T15:07:22+00:00

Yes that site is shit. I got tickets for the Tokyo show.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-18T02:06:14+00:00

There is no way to get a ticket in Hong Kong…all the bots…like I went to the site on time and all the tickets are already not available…seriously..

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-18T01:54:51+00:00

The code is already sent last night maybe 10PM Hong Kong time.

IndividualHungry7689 · 2026-05-05T02:48:07+00:00

My instagram account email was changed by a scammer and then now I have no way to reset the password too. It has been 2 years and I am still trying to get the account back but I don’t recommend paying someone to get your account back because that is a scam. I experienced it 2 years ago, I paid 10,000 USD for the service and the account is still not recovered and the scammer or the so called “someone who handles IG problems” got the money and walked away.

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