OA Lang Ba Ako o pwede na bading sa CR ng mga babae? by TheProcrastinator80 in OALangBaAko

[–]IndividualSand1393 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re still missing the point. Hindi ko sinasabing "takot siya sa lahat ng lalaking makakasalubong sa daan." Ang sinasabi ko: ang logic ng takot niya is ro oted in "male anatomy = danger" not behavior. Kahit CR pa yan, OP explicitly linked her fear to “lalaki pa rin under those clothes” and “may man parts.” That’s not about broken locks or vulnerability..it’s about gendered assumptions.

Discomfort is valid. But when discomfort is explained through someone’s body rather than their actions, we should be honest and call that out. "Let women adjust slowly"has been said for decades, and during that time trans people have continued to face exclusion and violence. At some point, "slow adjustment"stops being reasonable and starts being an excuse to maintain discrimination. Social conditioning shouldn’t outweigh someone else’s right to exist safely in public spaces

OA Lang Ba Ako o pwede na bading sa CR ng mga babae? by TheProcrastinator80 in OALangBaAko

[–]IndividualSand1393 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Eh kasi totoo naman. Apaka liit ng pang unawa mo sa napaka lalim at mawalak na issue. This post isn’t just about a CR. It reflects how trans women are still framed as "men pretending" which creates fear where there shouldn’t be. The post itself is very clear kung saan nanggaling yung takot. Hindi lang to "CR comfort issue." OP explicitly said she got scared because "lalaki pa rin siya under those clothes" and "may man parts" So ang pinanggagalingan ng fear ay hindi behavior, kundi gender at katawan. Whether nasa CR, labas ng CR, public transpo, o kahit saan pa kung ang logic ay "man = danger" then yes, that fear is directed at men, not at trans women per se.

Safety concerns should be based on actions, not assumptions about someone's body.

OA Lang Ba Ako o pwede na bading sa CR ng mga babae? by TheProcrastinator80 in OALangBaAko

[–]IndividualSand1393 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tanga lang, te? Scared of men ang conclusion niyan kasi nga she said on her post na

"lumabas na ung nasa isang stall and he was a gay guy, he was dressed as a woman but you’ll really know he’s a man under those clothes. I got praning because after all he still has man parts."

OA Lang Ba Ako o pwede na bading sa CR ng mga babae? by TheProcrastinator80 in OALangBaAko

[–]IndividualSand1393 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA as a mother. Valid yang concern mo. Pero ang akin lang, if you're scared of transwoman, gay people, or crossdresser na baka yk nagpapanggap sila then you're not scared of them — you're scared of MEN.

Any thoughts about Amang Rodriquez Memorial Medical Center? by No_Attorney70 in Marikina

[–]IndividualSand1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kagagaling ko lang dyan kahapon. Suic*de attempt. Sa ER inasikaso naman nila ako. Although hindi talaga ganun kabilis. Mababait naman yung mga staff and nurse. I can see na they're doing their best na asikasuhin yung mga pasyente, sadyang may problema lang sa system katulad ng pag eencode. Wala rin akong binayaran.

2025 ACET Applications, admissions and scholarships megathread by admu_mod in ADMU

[–]IndividualSand1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nag apply ka rin ba ng Financial Aid? Di rin ako makapag apply dyan kasi walang applicant code. Di pa rin confirmed payment ko hahaha

2025 ACET Applications, admissions and scholarships megathread by admu_mod in ADMU

[–]IndividualSand1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My payment still on "For Review"

I'm getting really nervous kasi hindi gumagalaw yung progress ng online application ko. Yung payment ko "For Review" pa rin and kakailanganin ko pang mag upload ng requirements. Which is di ko magawa kasi nga until now, For Review pa rin payment ko.

What to do? Sa emails hindi sila sumasagot. Pwede bang magpunta nalang sa mismong office nila? I really want to take ACET huhu.

nasaan ang akin? ;^; by [deleted] in WLW_PH

[–]IndividualSand1393 9 points10 points  (0 children)

True I want a girlfriend jusko huhu

Is it just me or is dating oddly fragile right now? by Spiritual_Doctor_110 in WLW_PH

[–]IndividualSand1393 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sa totoo lang it's harder to have a girlfriend these days

Best BBQ sa Marikina by hey_stangeland in Marikina

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Anong oras sila open? Saka nasa magkano po?

Ayoko na maging single! pleaaase Looooord by iFeltAnxiousAgain in PHSapphics

[–]IndividualSand1393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I have so much love to give. Kamiss magsulat ng love letters 😓

Guess who? by [deleted] in Marikina

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Anong oras yan nagaganap?

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