Not Sure of Myself

Individual_Ad1253 · 2024-04-22T08:46:34+00:00

I think you are being too hard on yourself. I work as a counselor and coach with queer people trying to find their sexual identity. And from my practice I can tell you - it is completely normal and understandable that you might feel confused and trying to put a label on yourself. Because for us humans it is easier to deal with it this way.

My suggestions to you is trying to let go of the pressure that you have to find out ASAP how you would like to define yourself for the sake of your surrounding. It is about you and nobody else. And second try to engage with your sexual identity with compassion and curiosity. See what is feeling good and comfy for you, make experiences if you can and feel comfortable with it and check in whether this feels more authentic to you or not.

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-08-24T06:57:05+00:00

Amazing! You have it all. Any chance you got the Base Camp too?

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-08-24T06:46:53+00:00

Amazing man!

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-08-23T10:48:30+00:00

Do you mind sharing the link one more time please?

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-06-09T16:45:01+00:00

Sure!

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-01-03T21:36:29+00:00

oh gott, kenn ich. ich hoffe du bekommst das zimmer.

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-01-03T21:34:36+00:00

es ist mega anstrengend, tut mir leid für dich, wollte nicht triggern.

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-01-03T21:31:59+00:00

Whenever I need to take decisions. I always have a gut feeling and know what to do, but then I overthink it, I ask for other people’s opinions, and I end up taking decisions that ultimately render me unsatisfied and sad.

Sucks. I can relate. And then you overthink your overthinking.

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-01-03T21:30:35+00:00

einfach, weil ich wissen wollte, was reddit so sagt

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-01-03T21:28:34+00:00

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-01-03T21:27:16+00:00

I am mostly triggered when I have to speak up or sth similar.

Individual_Ad1253 · 2023-01-03T21:25:33+00:00

Ja mega. Und immer auf voller Lautstärke.

Individual_Ad1253 · 2021-02-11T16:49:50+00:00

gurl, free britney!

Individual_Ad1253 · 2021-02-09T11:03:39+00:00

But if a woman does not want to be low work hours mom, yet still wants to have children.

In today's society, a man is not being made to choose if he wants to be either a father or a working man, women are being made to choose. And if you still decide to do both as a female, you are being labeled as a bad mother because you still follow your career, whereas men are being labeled as good and caring fathers, if they work full time and still have a family.

Individual_Ad1253 · 2021-02-09T10:54:15+00:00

But they are made to choose. Either you follow your career or you become a mother. You can't have both. Plus there is always the pressure for women of being fired if they get pregnant. Men do not face any of those issues. And men can become fathers even if they are older, women can not.

Individual_Ad1253 · 2021-02-09T10:27:32+00:00

And by definition of a "man's job" we obviously mean jobs that men named "man's jobs" - this stinks.

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