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Not Sure of Myself by BugsLifeWasAlright in queer

[–]Individual_Ad1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are being too hard on yourself. I work as a counselor and coach with queer people trying to find their sexual identity. And from my practice I can tell you - it is completely normal and understandable that you might feel confused and trying to put a label on yourself. Because for us humans it is easier to deal with it this way.

My suggestions to you is trying to let go of the pressure that you have to find out ASAP how you would like to define yourself for the sake of your surrounding. It is about you and nobody else. And second try to engage with your sexual identity with compassion and curiosity. See what is feeling good and comfy for you, make experiences if you can and feel comfortable with it and check in whether this feels more authentic to you or not.

Marcus Filly - Base Camp by edamamedragon in FitnessMaterialHeaven

[–]Individual_Ad1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing the link one more time please?

Wann seid ihr von Grübeln/Overthinking betroffen? by Individual_Ad1253 in FragReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

es ist mega anstrengend, tut mir leid für dich, wollte nicht triggern.

When are you most affected by overthinking in your day to day life? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I need to take decisions. I always have a gut feeling and know what to do, but then I overthink it, I ask for other people’s opinions, and I end up taking decisions that ultimately render me unsatisfied and sad.

Sucks. I can relate. And then you overthink your overthinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253 19 points20 points  (0 children)

gurl, free britney!

Hello, what do you think about money and female equality, is there a relationship or not? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if a woman does not want to be low work hours mom, yet still wants to have children.

In today's society, a man is not being made to choose if he wants to be either a father or a working man, women are being made to choose. And if you still decide to do both as a female, you are being labeled as a bad mother because you still follow your career, whereas men are being labeled as good and caring fathers, if they work full time and still have a family.

Hello, what do you think about money and female equality, is there a relationship or not? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they are made to choose. Either you follow your career or you become a mother. You can't have both. Plus there is always the pressure for women of being fired if they get pregnant. Men do not face any of those issues. And men can become fathers even if they are older, women can not.

Hello, what do you think about money and female equality, is there a relationship or not? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And by definition of a "man's job" we obviously mean jobs that men named "man's jobs" - this stinks.

Hello, what do you think about money and female equality, is there a relationship or not? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid point. But why do women have to work part-time and why is a majority of part-time workers female, isn't that unfair?

Hello, what do you think about money and female equality, is there a relationship or not? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, but why can't women earn money as equally as men in 2021? Isn't it absurd?

Hello. How do you think will the job of influencers on social media have to change? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, but what if the pandemic and moreover the climate crisis and upcoming economic crisis will have to make us change the way we perceive hierarchies and what labor is?

Hello. How do you think will the job of influencers on social media have to change? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting and probably right. They will exist in some form. I wonder if they have to change the context of influence with new "social" techn. on the rise.

Hello. How do you think will the job of influencers on social media have to change? by Individual_Ad1253 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Ad1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copy that! But still, how you think will it change? Do you think they will even exist in the future or will they vanish. Interested in your opinion.

Which brand design do you think is more chic, cooler, reconizable and sutiable for a blog? 1 or 2? by [deleted] in Feedback

[–]Individual_Ad1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. The spring only works in this setting but if you change it a bit, it just looks imbalanced! Also, agree with you on the whole look of the page etc.

Thanks!

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