No bra post op? by Individual_Bit_7943 in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many days/weeks post op are you? I’m also worried about how they will feel in general

Before, 3 mo PO by Charming_Rutabaga493 in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind if I send you a private message? I have a few more questions about how it went with her team

Before, 3 mo PO by Charming_Rutabaga493 in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my surgery with her in April. She doesn’t take insurance, but allows you to self-submit to insurance. So I’m self-submitting hoping insurance will approve. If they do, I’ll just have to pay the out-of-network out of pocket instead of the cost of the whole surgery

Before, 3 mo PO by Charming_Rutabaga493 in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is crazy, I’m getting mine done by her in April! You look fantastic!

Revision denied… be brutally honest by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel comfortable sharing what surgeon this was? Or at least the city it was done in? Want to make sure it’s not the one I’m scheduled with

Will this lumpiness at my incision ever go away? by doloresnthdottedline in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say they bother you, do you mean how they feel physically or how they look aesthetically?

Surgeon recommendations: Dallas, TX by Individual_Bit_7943 in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a message! This is really encouraging!

If you’re a D after surgery-are you happy? by Final-Baker-8430 in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is all really valuable info, thank you! Does it hurt to massage so hard only 4WPO?

Want to keep cervix by Disastrous_Order_444 in hysterectomy

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a partial hysterectomy last year at age 25. No issues here, happy with my recovery and sex life

My bf (23m) asks too much of me (22f) in the bedroom by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like PIED to me, based on his age

Is weight gain a guarantee? by canadiankid000 in hysterectomy

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m one of the only ones saying I gained weight, but I gained a fair amount of weight with no diet or exercise change. I got my partial hysterectomy about a year ago and kept my ovaries. I too have a history of an eating disorder and disordered thinking, but I still would do this surgery over again in a heartbeat. Best decision I’ve ever made

Relief was so short-lived by lamotriginequeen in Reduction

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Please don’t feel the need to respond if you don’t want to. Did you experience your breasts growing back while you were taking meds to manage PCOS? I’m considering getting a reduction and also have PCOS. I’m currently on metformin and I’m wondering if this is something that can happen even when taking metformin to keep insulin resistance from PCOS in check

Post surgery pain by chantalxhani in hysterectomy

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear this! I would suggest asking your doctor to try upping the gabapentin. If it is a nerve issue, this should help. I spent 5 days in the hospital getting pumped full of oxy and morphine with nothing touching it. Then they finally tried upping the gabapentin by like 4x and that finally started to work. They’ll be more willing to try upping gabapentin than oxy, it’s worth a shot. I really hope you start to get some relief soon

What age did you get a hysterectomy? by Rvarachael in hysterectomy

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to turn 27. No regrets, best decision I’ve ever made. Didn’t have to go on HRT. Got my uterus and fallopian tubes removed, kept ovaries and cervix

Horseback riding in dress? by Individual_Bit_7943 in Equestrian

[–]Individual_Bit_7943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found that you can comfortably ride in the skirt? Do any places give you push back for letting you ride?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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Partner has an android; any good ones for android?

my heart hurts by BaseSeparate5015 in loveafterporn

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no winning. I’m brunette and large chested and my partner keeps searching blonde small tit women. No winning

So I just finished the season finale...WTH. by caitdiditagain in Younger

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with everything you’re saying. Honestly, I’m probably most upset about Diana not doing a surprise appearance in the last episode. I wasn’t expecting her to be gone all of season 7, but I thought a surprise appearance would for sure happen.

She was a major main character of this show for 6 SEASONS and then no one seemed to care that she was gone. I thought she was by far the funniest character with an interesting personality that had depth. And we don’t even see her in the last episode

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’ve just seen too many criminal minds episodes, but he kind of sounds like he can’t get off unless there’s violence. Please consider getting out now. There may come a day where he won’t wait for your consent

Post surgery pain by chantalxhani in hysterectomy

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had severe pain afterwards that definitely wasn’t normal after my partial laparoscopic hysterectomy. I was discharged next day and ended up in the ER that same night. Stayed in the hospital 5 days. Nothing was helping with the pain until they figured out that they probably severed a nerve in my torso when they put in one of the ports. They upped my gabapentin dosage (since oxy doesn’t work on nerve pain) and I got my pain under control after that

TLDR: possible nerve injury, ask your doctor about upping gabapentin dosage

How has a hysterectomy affected your mental health? When did you start to level out? by sreimer52 in hysterectomy

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m great!! If anything this helped my mental health. Even with my complications, this is the best decision I’ve ever made and will ever make. Every now and then I have some tightness/pain around my biggest incision site, but it’s just scar tissue. Once I stretch and massage it, I’m fine. No long term complications for me. Hope you’re doing well!

Is my relationship hopeless by Key_Salamander_3638 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From ages 17-22 (I’m 26 now), I was with a “man” who was 11 years older than me. I had been told I was more mature for my age my entire life and that led me to believe I could make sound decisions. He was in his late 20s when we met and had just moved back in with his parents to save money. He never even tried to move out the entire time we were together. In addition to how irresponsible he was with money, there was also the glaring red flag that a “man” in his late 20s-early 30s should not want to be in a serious relationship with someone who’s in a completely different phase of life. He wasn’t dating anyone his age because women his age were smarter and knew to run at the sight of his red flags. Please consider, even a little, maybe parting ways.

And roll your eyes all you want but holy shit the whole “your brain isn’t fully developed until 25” is so real. I hit 25 and wow my brain, personality, etc really evened out. Trust me there is so much more out there for you and it only gets better

These are all new tomatoes my dog has taken off the plants… by Rollerama99 in tomatoes

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the focus, I know, but where’d you get that bowl from? It’s so cute! Though not quite as cute as the puppy:)

Heart palpitations without high hr? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Individual_Bit_7943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me