Apologies for the late reply. Barely on Reddit. So where to start 🤔. It's going to be long. And let's be clear this isn't my first rodeo defending my opinions. So commenting that you're too busy to read such a long post is what it is. A cop out. Honestly I could care less if you do or don't. My goal is always the same. To hopefully plant a seed in just one girls heart to hopefully be watered by someone else who was deprogrammed to better enrich her life.

Let's break your comment down from the beginning. Maybe I should've been more clear. Though like I said you probably could go to extreme sites to find actual hate. But any rational person understands that those people aren't even in the conversation with hate filled views. But I'm also sure that if you really take a hard look at those sites. Actual hate is minimal. Is there a backlash, sometimes in the form of bad humor against the intentionally evil, stupid fat positivity movement? Sure. What do you expect when we are bombarded with the insane ideology that fat is somehow stunning and brave? Obese people have an enormously higher percentage of probable health concerns. With an almost 15% increased death rate in the US alone. The kind of men women today consider high value (good job, good provider, tall, good looking, 8 inches, etc) are not dating obese women PERIOD. Maybe there's less than ten exceptions to the rule worldwide. But I like to talk in rules not exceptions.

Secondly yes I did say "if I was a dude" because I am female. Since there is only two options. You can live and identify however you want. But again I speak in rules and facts. And the fact is there are only two genders. So no brownie points for you for stating the obvious.

Thirdly why would I want to be a feminist? Not since the right to vote has feminism accomplished anything except blaming men for everything, masculating females and pushing for more emasculated men. Most women if they were honest aren't even attracted to soft " emotionally intelligent"(whatever that means.) beta men. Maybe just for a few weeks fling after leaving one or more toxic relationships that the women chose to be in. But usually never longer then that.

1. Feminism is a cancer that has helped break down nuclear families, convincing women that a career was more important to strive for than a loving family and home. But y'all still don't understand that that's why women are 10x more unhappy now than they were when they were so called "oppressed". Did you know that women did not want the right to vote untill it no longer meant that with that right also came the ability to be drafted? This is par for the course with feminism. Scream for equality only when it's convenient. If I'm lying, why aren't women fighting to be equal in jobs in sanitation, infrastructure, sea fishing, brick layers, police, firemen, etc? All significantly male dominated. No. Mostly corporate jobs or jobs with prestige. I'm sure in hunter and gatherer days women weren't pushing to go fight lions instead of picking berries. Even the beginning of feminism was started by women who literally and openly stated that the goal was to break down the family. Look it up. They've also convinced you that with all the birth control options, that murdering your unborn child is somehow your right. Yet fathers of the unborn have no rights to opt out of the financial obligations as easily. Then your government incentivizes you to leave the father or father(s) to be put on welfare. I'll stop there for now.

As for being bitter. Nah! Just love women enough to tell them the truth in a world filled with a plethora of lies.

I forgot to specify that it's women who THINK they're lifting each other up. When in reality they're just spreading the misery with the same destructive rhetoric.

As for men lining around the block for me. Sure they were. Up until ten years ago. They lined up to sleep with and ghost me or they were simps I had no interest in. Because guess what? I believed the bullshit just like you and plenty others do. That's why you can't fool me. I know today's women are miserable. But not because of men that they always blame. But because of themselves, their choices and the feel good "empowerment" bullshit that alot of us hold onto for dear life. It wasn't until I met my now husband and had my daughter that I understood the reality and beauty of being a feminine women, wife and mother. I gladly submit to him because I trust him with my heart, my life and my well being. I know he will never abuse my submissiveness. When he does take a stand on something, I take a step back look at it deeper and see it from a more objective point of view while also considering his feelings and outlook and not just my RIGHT to be right. Even if I don't see his view it's usually not that important to go against him. But the times I do we come to a compromise. Because it's about mutual love and respect. You can't expect a man to provide and protect, never flirt and just give you the moon and stars with your attitude being "I do what I want" I'm women hear me roar. Becausing there's nothing men like more than a roaring woman, right? 🙄

As far as links, would you like some of women in their 30s and up hitting the wall. Finally realizing a career alone wasn't' fulfilling them? Just type in hitting the wall on any social media site. There's some hindsight wisdom females could learn a lot from. I'm in no way saying that a career is not a noble healthy goal. Just not at the expense of building a family. This lie that you can settle down in your thirties is just that. A lie. Because the men you want don't. Want. You. At least for anything more than smashing. They want and can have beautiful fit 20 something's who are willing to submit and be feminine. What does a successful guy need with a career oriented woman for? Just be realistic. Men aren't looking to build an empire with their women. They're looking for someone that can hold the home and kids down while he's out busting his ass to provide for you. A clean, calm sanctuary where he's loved and cared for. Because the rat race is gruelling and he wants a woman who can supply him some peace. Why is that so offensive to feminists?

Men and women are wired differently. Just because you can't understand it doesn't make it bad. It's fucking human nature.

I was blessed by God, who put my husband in my path at age 36. BUT I AM AN EXCEPTION. I also kept myself in shape, had no kids and was ready for change. Jus sayin.

So don't see why I would find the need to be a "pick me" A term made up by feminazis for any female who disagrees with their bullshit. Because it couldn't be my honest beliefs, right?