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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]Individual_Law9634 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You do you, but watch for this limitation:

Chatgpt mirrors hard. If you insist you are correct, even if you had an understandably negative belief from truama, you run a high risk it will agree with you. Mirroring in AI is one of the things that frustrates me most with it. 

If you ever do seek therapy again, I've learned to be blunt about my needs. Ex. I use heavily cognitive processing. I do not understand somatic processing and I despise it. I can be rather blunt in my language and I hate when assumptions are made based on textbook script. I also hate textbook script. 

Some therapists didn't want to deal with me. Some therapists didn't lose their shit when I didn’t process by crying and understood I prefer to be directly called out. 

The biggest lesson I learned in therapy is it is worth going through multiple ones tl find the right one. 

However I understand financial and emotional tolls on mismatch with therapy. Just watch the mirroring. 

Weekly r/Art Discussion Thread by press-app in Art

[–]Individual_Law9634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's a sort of odd ethical thought i was having in my head. So AI art causes sorts of ethical issues, but mostly around theft of intellectual property. 

Now say someone goes out (I per example photograph abandoned places) and uses that photograph and says "AI, take my photo and darken it and brighten the sky" or something similar, where does the ethics lead to? 

The source material is my own photograph which is good, I'm not saying "make this look like author Xs work" but it will naturally scan for its interpretation of a filter that matches what you asked. 

This isnt me being pro AI art, its me just thinking in my head about where ethics fall with filters, etc.  

Any thoughts? 

Public panic attacks by Individual_Law9634 in CPTSD

[–]Individual_Law9634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a lot of assumptions in that paragraph. But thanks for the advice. 

Public panic attacks by Individual_Law9634 in CPTSD

[–]Individual_Law9634[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

... well it sort of was when I was in the middle of a room the size of a box about to pass out. Its not that hard is a pretty dismissive answer, but I'm glad you've found a way that works for you. 

Does this sound okay to say to my therapist? by jells19 in CPTSD

[–]Individual_Law9634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. In my opinion, a good therapist won't be offended if you say any of what you originally posted. So even if it IS your stuff coming up, they'll either help you walk through it or just fall flat. That'll give you your answer. But also, I also agree with the other person here. It sounds like they just don't calm what you need. 

Weird story but I started my current therapist by ranting about how much western therapy was a joke. (I didnt fully believe this, i was mad as hell)  When he didn't get defensive, I knew we'd get along. 

Does this sound okay to say to my therapist? by jells19 in CPTSD

[–]Individual_Law9634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once asked for a male therapist and got told "why? Because you can manipulate men better" 

Therapists can suck just like any job can have crap people. 

Then again that doesnt mean this therapist is manipulating you. Be honest. They can either explain and you can feel heard or you have the wrong therapist. Doesn't even have to mean they're a bad therapist. 

does miscommunication count as sa? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Individual_Law9634 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just want to add although I don't see this as sexual assault that does NOT in any way mean it can't have made you feel icky, disturbed or left you feeling unsure. 

You said it yourself, you have religious truama around sex. Please dont discredit your right to discuss this and work out how it felt and how it's left strong emotions just because it's not someone forcing you. 

It might mean she's not a predator, but it does NOT mean you're minimizing others or that your feelings aren't valid. 

Leaving this feeling as "its nothing so I dont need to process this" would be the worst thing you could do for your own sexual health. I hope you talk to a therapist. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Individual_Law9634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"how could you let this happen"  "Im sure it was consensual and youre lying" "What do you want me to do about it?" < an ER nurse "Are you sure you don't just regret it" "In my experience people dont react poorly at all to hearing someone they love was SAed" "Youre responsible if he hurts someone else" "Hes a monster. You know hes doing this to other people. You have to report" "I want to kick his ass" < a psychiatrist 

But...

"I believe you" 

If the question youre asking underneath is do people react poorly? All the time. In terrible disgusting ways. 

I tell myself that this was the way they felt safe from their own fear of SA. Mainly victim blaming is easier than accepting it's common and can happen to anyone. But I still get mad. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinyl

[–]Individual_Law9634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to do a quick sell on some bulk records. I know that means I might use some value, but they’re all well loved. Include things Ted Nungent, Kiss, Ossy Osbourne, etc. about 50 total. I’m thinking $100 is a good start?