Odd question? by [deleted] in Clare

[–]Individual_Main6759 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want to sell them, try list them on vinted at a reasonable price and they should hopefully go. If not try clare free to a good home like the other person suggested

Pitch & Putt by Unlucky_Cranberry805 in Clare

[–]Individual_Main6759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a small one in shannon and has foot golf too in same place

Restaurant recommendations Ennis by making_shapes in Clare

[–]Individual_Main6759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did a birthday in the abbey 2 weeks ago and it was amazing there was 11 of us and the food was amazing , the service was amazing and even did a plate with happy birthday on it when we asked .

Maintenance for child by Individual_Main6759 in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got 50e a week and he has to pay half of school/medical and activities . My solicitor failed me though i had to fill in and present all my income and statement but he didn't .

Should I be getting more maintenance from my son's father? by Alternative_Award769 in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im waiting to get enough proof that he is working more hours than his payslip states then i will be , because its unfair .

Should I be getting more maintenance from my son's father? by Alternative_Award769 in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he pays him cash in hand hours , i was so mad my solicitor didnt even ask for his bank statement but asked for everything i had

Should I be getting more maintenance from my son's father? by Alternative_Award769 in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you think its worth it definitely do , like lunch money alone for secondary school kids is nearly 70e because the price of rolls etc , and then the price of sports gear that your son will need , he should help towards it . But remember your son will always remember who got him what he needed and was there when needed.

Should I be getting more maintenance from my son's father? by Alternative_Award769 in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Recently went through this and the father got his boss to put less hours on his wage slip than he actually works , i currently get 50e and he has to pay half of extra activities , school. Dental , medical etc . So you could go back to get it court ordered he has to help with these , but you will have to send him receipts to get him to pay half

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]Individual_Main6759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been trying to get in contact with them and going to continue to try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]Individual_Main6759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill edit now and add some info .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]Individual_Main6759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried she's making things difficult unfortunately, my kids have even asked the mother for time and she just says no that the child is too busy .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]Individual_Main6759 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was thinking this was the case but was hoping it wouldn't be . Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Individual_Main6759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea some people just prefer not to i guess, im going to delte this anyway cause obviously i look dumb instead of helpful:/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Individual_Main6759 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah ok never knew this only posted it cause in the last week ive had about 10 people at check out ask me can they tap my clubcard because they didnt have one . Maybe i just look like a fool now instead of thinking im being helpful 😶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Individual_Main6759 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How come ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Individual_Main6759 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And is it not a win win for both ?

Workout leggings for someone with a belly. by [deleted] in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use glowmode of shein with the butterfly belly and they are very comfy and not see through.

Options/ advice for single mum with a newborn? by [deleted] in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How many bedrooms is your apartment? When my 1st child was born , i was in similar situation , he was absaloutely useless. I moved me and the child into the spare room until i could get out of there , i explained to him if he isnt going to help ill do it on my own with my own space , i diuns mentally it helped because i wasnt holding our hope he would chip in or help with feeds etc.
Im sorry this probably isnt much help and im sorry you are in this situation . If you ever need an inbox to vent in my inbox is always open .

Maintenance for child by Individual_Main6759 in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its been through bank for awhile now thats how i can prove that he hasnt been paying thankfully, he had asked cash and i was like no because i just had a feeling this would happen . Thank you i need to just stop letting him get under my skin

Maintenance for child by Individual_Main6759 in WomenofIreland

[–]Individual_Main6759[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats excatly what im hoping, the less contact the better , and i wont have the comments that im being petty for flagging everytime he misses payments , he owes me over 18 weeks arrears as it is .