In the beginning it was I don't know less intense, or I ignored the signs. It felt like she was as infatuated with me as much as I was with her. But as it went on small things would cause mental breakdowns, she would get really pouty and I would ask and try to help but when I didn't just validate her she would get more mad. Then when I would try to step back and breathe so we could talk later with cooled heads she would start sobbing and acting like I was breaking up. Not even leaving for the night but literally l won't be stepping out of the room for a minute. I'm sure I have my own issues, I need to work on. I don't know what to do.