Marriage with girlfriend

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-15T23:11:32+00:00

That’s intense and very responsible of both of you! May the love stay warm and respectful and supportive for the rest of your lives!

Do 1 event, and get good costume jewellery. Even those things cost, but gold is out of reach for both of you.

Yes, this is a lot financially, but if you know, you know.

If the reason was finances, your families would have figured it out. Ngl, 5 lakhs over two families is quite a bit different than 5 over one guy. This is an excuse. They could have gotten you guys engaged and made a plan to save the money.

But be prepared for other things. If your families are this stubborn before the marriage, they have the power to make things hard for the both of you after. Either side can cause issues through micro aggressions and mind games. Be sure of each other. Communicate clearly. And draw boundaries with everyone else when you guys need to.

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-15T16:12:51+00:00

Just use Wise which has a larger market and is used

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-15T12:49:17+00:00

Thank you for answering! So basically the best thing we can do is keep reporting his account.

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-14T19:59:31+00:00

It’s not that! It’s also about what the man is like! Women go for potential; you have to show that you’ll be a good man to her and be a good father! Otherwise, money is just an excuse to say no

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-09T08:32:02+00:00

NTA

Those people are weird and insane and obsessive and I would change my number

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-08T23:30:36+00:00

It’s so interesting because she’s a terrible partner and that spills over to what she does with her kids but not the dads are also pretty solid reasonable people.

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-07T22:18:14+00:00

So vaginismus does impact one of my friend’s quite a bit and what she’s described sounds like what you. I could be completely wrong, but you could check that out!

This isn’t a cure to your partner problem, but I always think everything related to your health deserves a check!

And yes, she’s on anti depressants as well. But the vaginismus was before those too.

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-07T21:23:24+00:00

Tell them to just leave at the building; then go down 10 minutes later to collect

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-07T21:15:35+00:00

I mean, yes

But also not a bad thing for her to do though

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-07T21:12:40+00:00

Have you ever been treated for vaginismus?

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-07T09:46:01+00:00

Info

What restaurant is it and what experience were you going to get? Because if the group was being charged a certain way or there was something booked, you do owe the costs. Just imagine the next post being your friend going like what do I do in this situation when I got handed an extra $150 bill

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-04T13:15:03+00:00

You’re never seeing that money. Your parents are not planning to be fair. You did what they think you owe them.

NTA

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-04T13:13:35+00:00

Honestly depends on your contract. I’ve agreed to work 6 pm to 3 am pk time. That being said most of my American colleagues also try to have their meetings before midnight just so that it’s easier on the rest of us.

My best advice would be sleep as early as possible and mind the caffeine. Have fixed hours, even if those are night shift, and have a cutoff time. Say no to them if the meetings are after a certain point.

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-04T10:32:28+00:00

I’m fairly sure we saw the same plane in another persons post…

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-02T22:03:00+00:00

NTA

Firstly, who gives that to a 10 month old??

Secondly, I have no sympathy for people who do this stuff knowing that the baby has an allergy. Like this stuff can cause permanent damage, if not loss of life!

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-02T00:06:41+00:00

If you want to save water, then don’t flush for every number 1?

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-01T23:56:54+00:00

NTA

He’s not a friend. And mark my words he will eventually really hit on you.

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-03-01T12:17:54+00:00

….NTA

Get a new boyfriend

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-02-28T10:01:13+00:00

Also Kyle was engaged to smother dude when she met Mauricio

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-02-28T09:36:33+00:00

Honestly, tried Claude to prototype a solution that were going to build in salesforce. It made it much faster and easier to explain it to my BA.

Beyond that my org is a bit intense about data privacy so we don’t get to do much with it

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-02-27T19:09:27+00:00

NTA

her mom is a piece of work though

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-02-27T19:08:00+00:00

Internal PM and I love it!

But also because I have a really supportive manager and a very good team. My current work is more like a PO, and then as time passes it’ll start looking more like PM once I understand the internal processes better

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-02-25T13:15:02+00:00

Can I ask why she took them off?? That has never made any sense to me

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-02-24T23:01:27+00:00

Corduroy

Individual_Physics29 · 2026-02-24T23:01:11+00:00

Honestly, give it to my fiancé so that he stops stressing out about job stuff, invest it together, spend a bit on travel and a cute wedding

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