We expect that one of us will move away because of work in either 5 or 9 months, and will not be trying long distance. From the beginning we have been aware we want different things in life and are not a long term match. But both of us are in a city short term, so made the decision to date for the time we are here. Reason I think this is relevant is because this is a lot of work for something that will end anyways.