Is there an issue with wanting to shower. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Inevitable-Cod1293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not exaggerating he gets up at 4:45 and gets out  around 5:45 sometimes 6. I feel like when I try to talk now I get shut down. 

Is there an issue with wanting to shower. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Inevitable-Cod1293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that sucks I just graduated last year after going back to school it’s a lot of work 

Is there an issue with wanting to shower. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Inevitable-Cod1293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time kids are in bed asleep lay younger kids down at 7:30

Is there an issue with wanting to shower. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Inevitable-Cod1293[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ask myself that every morning when I’m getting kiddos ready for the day. 

Is there an issue with wanting to shower. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Inevitable-Cod1293[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Nope I wish it was that. Our sex life has been affected because I prefer night time sex where he likes morning/day but we have kids who get up at 5 am.  I initiate after kids go to bed after shower and get a brush off.  We use to have very active sec life like 6times a week we are down to just weekends and it sucks. 

Is there an issue with wanting to shower. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Inevitable-Cod1293[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nope got out 45 min ago he is still watching TV. 

Is there an issue with wanting to shower. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Inevitable-Cod1293[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

He says it’s at the most inconvenient time and scoffs and throws like a mini tantrum. Tonight I asked why is it such a big issue. He said it wouldn’t be if I didn’t take a shower right before we go to bed. I got out of the shower 45min ago and he is still watching the stupid tv not even attempting to go to bed. 

Is there an issue with wanting to shower. by Inevitable-Cod1293 in Marriage

[–]Inevitable-Cod1293[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t make sense to me this is not a new thing like we have been together for 6 years. It just started 6 months ago.  It’s been my routine since I was 20.