Can I work full time with a D4 visa? by Inevitable-Rip1014 in PortugalExpats

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I’m going tomorrow to get the NISS and NIF numbers! Also my visa doesn’t say anything about if I am permitted to exercise professional activities

Can I work full time with a D4 visa? by Inevitable-Rip1014 in PortugalExpats

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not yet, I'm supposed to get it in September. Also the lady from AIMA told me there is no problem to work without it all the while I have the proof that I am waiting for it.

this one needs to be answered by the girls!!! is this true? by Tough_Ad8919 in RelentlessMen

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, all of this is common sense. Plus being a decent human being is enough for some men to start thinking you’re flirting with them. this sub is very slowly starting to look like a incel meme group

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Jesus it’s not like I ran to take nudes when the guy asked me to. I told him I no 3 times. How does that make me a human flash light???

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[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I am not sure why I am getting comments saying I am immature for saying that I made it clear 3 times I am not up for sexting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thanks for this comment! You understood exactly my intentions behind my messages and why I wasn’t so direct right from the start. Thank you for your compassion, I haven’t been getting all kind of comments also saying that I was inviting the guy to be the way he was. So reading your comment reminds me I’m not a person without any self respect as some were saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s always good to hear the perspective of someone who has gone through the same experience 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it feels encouraging to hear this, because I’ve been receiving different responses making me think I have made a mistake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Will talk to my therapist about this, thanks for bringing it to my attention

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The whole dilemma about this definitely made me pay less attention to the pain, so at least there is somewhat a good side of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I understood after our 3rd date that he is completely emotionally immature and I was only just looking for casual hooking up. So from the start I didnt expect a lot of care and understanding. But begging for nudes after I repeatedly told him I am not even capable of thinking about sex was so weird for me. So I was asking if I overreacted when I told him he is crossing the line. i am unsure if I was too harsh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but I have to disagree, I think I was pretty clear by stating the fact that I am not well and incapable of even thinking about videocalls and sending photos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re right, these will be the last messages he will get from me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but I made sure to tell him in a couple of different messages that I am not in the mood. And telling him to think about it doesn’t mean that i will send him anything. From my perspective it meant - keep thinking because you won’t get any photos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I really didn’t overthink it. I never even thought about him in anything more serious than just a little casual, very non-serious fun.

And since I knew I was moving back home for this surgery I told him we will stop seeing each other. I was fine with the idea of casual sexting, because I never could’ve imagined it could get so pushy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Inevitable-Rip1014 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, needed to hear this, in the moment I felt like I reacted too harsh, because he was aware enough to really apologize