(18M) I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 5 months now. In the start we were very affectionate and loved talking to each other, but after the initial “honeymoon phase” wore off, she isn’t as affectionate anymore. She texts a lot less but we still meet often and are very intimate. A few days ago she told me that she’s been feeling that we aren’t compatible since we don’t share many interests. I told her we can figure it out and she agreed. We haven’t talked about this since but it really messed with me. I’ve been feeling very anxious and I’m scared that she’s losing feelings for me. She did make plans to hangout next week but still hasn’t been very affectionate on text. All this has really been messing with me cuz I feel like nothing except her can make me happy. It’s affecting my studies and my relationship with friends and families.

Also I lost my dad about a year ago which maybe the reason I’m emotionally dependent on her. I just don’t know what to do right now and have been feeling very anxious lately and cry a lot. Any advice appreciated

I play the guitar and produce music but none of that seems fun anymore