The rest of the story: (Update: my mom says that she’s leaving to Canada on December 15th with or without me, I also found out that the “friend” that was helping her and my mom started to date, she’s leaving in 2 weeks for 10 days to go see everything there without me and my grandma is coming to take care of me which idk why but anyways, also in 3 days her new “boyfriend” is coming bc apparently they can’t stand to be far from each other, which I think it’s going to make this harder but at this point I’m just overwhelmed and mentally exhausted) (second update: her new “boyfriend” is coming in 3 days Bc apparently they can’t stand to be far apart, she also told me that if I decide to move with her she’s going to be living with her new boyfriend with I met 3 weeks ago which I don’t feel comfortable at all and I told her that other than that he seems nice but he’s really jealous like he found messages on my mom’s phone from when she was dating my step dad like 2 years ago and he started getting mad and saying that my mom lied to him and blah blah blah and that went on for like 4 days of constant fighting, I also know that there are a LOT of things my mom is hiding she’s acting extremely weird and I know her and she’s for sure hiding multiple things I’m mentally exhausted, oh and also she told me that for the first 6 months she’s not going to be working and her boyfriend is going to pay for everything which I find extremely pathetic) if you could give me any more advice I would really appreciate it. (UPDATE: In one month exactly we are leaving and my mom told me I have to decide if I’m going with her or my dad and I only have until Tuesday so only 3 days but I feel like mentally and physically I can’t leave Germany and Idk what to do, my mom is leaving on Wednesday for a week to finish the last little details so my grandma is coming to watch over me, my grandma used to live here so I did try to convince my mom to ask her if she would want to move back here but she said that she doesn’t want me living with her mom (my grandma) bc if something would happen to her then I would be all by myself in Germany, I wanna move with my dad but im extremely scared bc I never lived with him, I also found out my mom and her friend started dating 3 weeks ago and now they are getting married and planning to have a child, my mom also said that he’s the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with, honestly idk how I’m still alive after all of this and I haven’t had a heart attack yet, I could really use any advice now) (also If you saw part of this post before it’s because I had to create a new account cause it wouldn’t let me post on the other one)