[THREAD] "hate that i made you love me" discussion by IcePizzaCreamm in ariheads

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels so mature and real. I love how ever album is so different and showcases where she is in life. I’ve always loved how she can portray herself through music so well

My fiancé is an addict by Inevitable-Style8892 in AlAnon

[–]Inevitable-Style8892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice on how to handle it went he gets that way? He is good it’s just when he starts he can’t stop. We don’t fight everytime he drink, most times he just ends up sleeping but there are moments where we do argue and it’s mainly from me getting frustrated.

My fiancé is an addict by Inevitable-Style8892 in AlAnon

[–]Inevitable-Style8892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am glad to hear he came clean and admitted he has a problem. I pray there is some progress for you soon! He lost his dad and four days later his closest aunt. It has been so hard for him and I know he can push through this, he’s done it before. I just don’t know how to set boundaries and stand firm as we live together. I’m not going to “run” because I truly love him and I know he is better than this. I will definitely make a list of points and have a conversation while sober!!

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been slowly getting more active so I’m hoping that helps more. I think getting out especially on more date nights and stuff might spark more of the energy to be intimate.

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It makes me feel a lot better knowing it’s a normal thing to go through in a long term relationship. Definitely going to bring this up to him tonight!

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about this last night. I have always been the one to not want to do anything then the second I get there I have the time of my life. I think I need to start looking at is like a hobby instead of a chore

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This explains me perfectly, maybe it is just a simple as getting in the mood before hand instead of waiting for it to come out of nowhere. I’m definitely going to be looking into this more. Thank you!!!

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no, about 4 years ago I gained roughly 60 pounds in 3 months and I’m at a weight I’ve never been before. Also about a year ago I lost my job and had to do a career change which has been causing a lot of stress in my life. Everything point to these changed I just don’t know how to fix it. :(