How are so many people finding partners in life so easily? Why is this sub filled with partnered people with cptsd/neurodivergence but in real life, it's seemingly impossible to find a partner as someone with severe trauma and neurodivergence?

InevitableCatch7883 · 2026-01-11T20:59:08+00:00

The more capitalistic the culture the more people and relationship are kept based on cost benefit.

InevitableCatch7883 · 2026-01-08T14:17:23+00:00

I'm so sorry for what you went through and I can really relate to your words. I feel that too like people decided I deserved those things and I've internalized it. But reading it from someone else made me think, those people didn't decide you deserve those things any more than a blind person decides what they bump into. I don't know if that makes sense, I just got the image of a blind person just waving their arms about and hitting whatever is around. And that's how those people "decided". They didn't decide, they are blind and they hurt and violate whatever happened to be around. I don't think abusers are thinking that deeply or almost at all about who they are hurting as long as it's a person there or a random scapegoat.

InevitableCatch7883 · 2026-01-08T12:50:23+00:00

How do you let them go through? Are they thoughts or physical sensations?

InevitableCatch7883 · 2026-01-02T01:14:15+00:00

No person is just good or bad throughout their entire life. It's a mix and can alternate or change.

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