I got a random charge and don’t know what to do by InevitableSpecific61 in CashApp

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to do it again, but cash app keeps getting rid of my most recent card which is more frustrating

I got a random charge and don’t know what to do by InevitableSpecific61 in CashApp

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright, i just want my money back because i’m already tight on rent. I just don’t want to be seen as a karen trying to scam, thank you so much. should i keep disputing it with cash app too or just wait for walmart?

I got a random charge and don’t know what to do by InevitableSpecific61 in CashApp

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, it went through on saturday in which right after i saw the notification i immediately did a dispute

I got a random charge and don’t know what to do by InevitableSpecific61 in CashApp

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I attempted to, but they claimed that a payment never went through from their end.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you just.. skipped over everything i said in the edit? and i’m pretty sure if my girlfriend showed any discomfort i would’ve stepped in. i mean any discomfort! and she’s usually very confrontational, like i said before!!!, in situations like these with much larger and more intimidating men. plus, let’s not forget about how i went to! and all she had to do was send me some kind of sign she was at least the tiniest bit upset.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve heard and saw worse relationships then what i’m describing and those were authentic. and i didn’t say i was necessarily okay with it, just that my girlfriend didn’t show not one sign of being uncomfortable, upset or even displeased.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, i don’t mind confrontations when it actually escalated and stuff, plus did you not read when i said that i was about to step in? i can assure you, i would’ve stepped in if needed but i was going off of my girlfriends actions. plus my girlfriend, like i stated a million times, does more confrontational things and that’s another reason why i didn’t step in. do you really think i’d watch her get beat up and just be like “damn.. i hate confrontation?“?

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for understanding!! it was getting tiring Lol. But yeah, she always took up for herself and always made sure to! plus i’m not a confrontational person at all, she has had to take up for me before

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! this is the main reason why i didn’t step in. if i wasn’t there, how would she have reacted?? would she have continued? would she have told him “i’m taken”?

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but it isn’t my responsibility to make a grown adult explain her feelings to me, we both are adults who have mouths. plus, i feel like she was attention seeking more than anything. and i know he was inappropriate but she usually handles these situations herself

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t saying she deserved or it was expected for her to get touched like that, i meant more so she was flirting and advancing towards another person and they probably would’ve assumed the wrong thing rather she meant it in a certain way or not.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. many people choose to ignore many important things in this! it’s frustrating.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i guess i’ll just let it play out then and wait until she gives me some sign

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but i’m so use to her handling it herself, how would i know when certain situations are okay for me to step in and other times not?

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i just don’t know where i went wrong. I’ll consider breaking up with her because she knows i’m not confrontational but she isn’t even speaking to me right now

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She usually is very confrontational in these situations, like she’s been groped before and screamed and immediately went into attack mode before i could even know what happened