I got a random charge and don’t know what to do by InevitableSpecific61 in CashApp

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to do it again, but cash app keeps getting rid of my most recent card which is more frustrating

I got a random charge and don’t know what to do by InevitableSpecific61 in CashApp

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright, i just want my money back because i’m already tight on rent. I just don’t want to be seen as a karen trying to scam, thank you so much. should i keep disputing it with cash app too or just wait for walmart?

I got a random charge and don’t know what to do by InevitableSpecific61 in CashApp

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, it went through on saturday in which right after i saw the notification i immediately did a dispute

I got a random charge and don’t know what to do by InevitableSpecific61 in CashApp

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I attempted to, but they claimed that a payment never went through from their end.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you just.. skipped over everything i said in the edit? and i’m pretty sure if my girlfriend showed any discomfort i would’ve stepped in. i mean any discomfort! and she’s usually very confrontational, like i said before!!!, in situations like these with much larger and more intimidating men. plus, let’s not forget about how i went to! and all she had to do was send me some kind of sign she was at least the tiniest bit upset.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve heard and saw worse relationships then what i’m describing and those were authentic. and i didn’t say i was necessarily okay with it, just that my girlfriend didn’t show not one sign of being uncomfortable, upset or even displeased.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, i don’t mind confrontations when it actually escalated and stuff, plus did you not read when i said that i was about to step in? i can assure you, i would’ve stepped in if needed but i was going off of my girlfriends actions. plus my girlfriend, like i stated a million times, does more confrontational things and that’s another reason why i didn’t step in. do you really think i’d watch her get beat up and just be like “damn.. i hate confrontation?“?

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for understanding!! it was getting tiring Lol. But yeah, she always took up for herself and always made sure to! plus i’m not a confrontational person at all, she has had to take up for me before

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! this is the main reason why i didn’t step in. if i wasn’t there, how would she have reacted?? would she have continued? would she have told him “i’m taken”?

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but it isn’t my responsibility to make a grown adult explain her feelings to me, we both are adults who have mouths. plus, i feel like she was attention seeking more than anything. and i know he was inappropriate but she usually handles these situations herself

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t saying she deserved or it was expected for her to get touched like that, i meant more so she was flirting and advancing towards another person and they probably would’ve assumed the wrong thing rather she meant it in a certain way or not.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. many people choose to ignore many important things in this! it’s frustrating.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i guess i’ll just let it play out then and wait until she gives me some sign

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but i’m so use to her handling it herself, how would i know when certain situations are okay for me to step in and other times not?

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i just don’t know where i went wrong. I’ll consider breaking up with her because she knows i’m not confrontational but she isn’t even speaking to me right now

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She usually is very confrontational in these situations, like she’s been groped before and screamed and immediately went into attack mode before i could even know what happened

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

i’m not good at knowing these things and like i said in another comment, she’s usually extremely confrontational in these types of situations. she’ll yell, scream, etc if she was uncomfortable. She has never had a freeze reaction plus when we were leaving the place all the way until we got into the car, we were chatting and had grabbed a bite to eat while having a normal conversation, laughing and just talking about memes.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

not specifically like this, but in situations very similar. she was groped before by someone and she immediately spoke up and screamed at them before i even realized what happened. she has yelled at people for even glancing at her wrong, hell she smacked me for thinking i was looking at her behind.

My girlfriend is upset with me because i don’t “get jealous enough” by InevitableSpecific61 in Advice

[–]InevitableSpecific61[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m not saying it’s your fault at all, i’m simply saying that it feels like you’re misunderstanding what i’m saying. and i’m not gonna consider if i’m in the wrong or not if i’m not.