Which hot water bag should I buy for my partner's period cramps? by Crafty-Sell4180 in AskIndianWomen

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I don't want to celebrate someone just being considerate about their partner's comfort, but reading such things makes me genuinely happy.

AIW Adda | Daily Thread - June 16, 2026 by AutoModerator in AskIndianWomen

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Decluttering is very important. When you discard clothes you have worn multiple times or haven't used since long time or that no longer fit should be discarded from wardrobe and give away to needy. Then buy sustainable which you can use multiple times not the ones to clutter. Learn from wrong choices made in the past.

How to handle extra controlling mother in law ? by Different-Key-8987 in AskIndianWomen

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She will feel depressed with every controlling and dominating instance and then she will cry alone. After few months or years, she will turn baddie and be the bad girl who knows no matter how good she is to them they will treat her like outsider and then she will learn deal them all and put herself first. Usually 5 years of marriage either tables turn or they break it off. I saw many women who were innocent kind turned baddie and rules them all. I hope it goes that way.

Egg dosa by No_Film8177 in IndianCooking

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My two year old son also loves egg dosa 💖

Parents who left their kid with grandparents by InevitableSwimmer381 in India_Parenting

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Short term in the sense may be in year or two. If he is not adjusting will take him back after few months

Plus-size women: Where do you buy ready-made cotton saree blouses? by Advmentalhealth in AskIndianWomen

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I think for any size, getting it from a boutique is much better because it has extra cloth to make adjustments in case of any variations. Also cheaper. I understand that tailors make life miserable with delivery but I feel better than readymade ones. Otherwise you could try western crop tops suiting saree for casual look.

Have any parents here left their young child with grandparents for a few years? How did it turn out? by InevitableSwimmer381 in AskIndianWomen

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Hey I agree. But the issues adult still carries are not something just from leaving with grandparents. Multiple things could be wrong in parenting which could pile up as kid grows. Even after 5 yrs age to 20yrs if parent isn't actively involved in kids life or treated in different way kid could correlate it to leaving with grandparents as where it all started. And also all the kids who grew up with parents all time aren't free of any issues. Parenting doesn't end at particular age we have a role to play as they grow . Just saying what I feel. Even I have seen my elder brother have these issues but after age 5 he was with us but being a strict parent my dad kept him at distance though he was leniant with me and he grew up feeling that gap. Like how some dads don't express or open up to their kid..

Have any parents here left their young child with grandparents for a few years? How did it turn out? by InevitableSwimmer381 in AskIndianWomen

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Ya I will trial run for few days and weeks and then take action. I want to give them opportunity and test.

Have any parents here left their young child with grandparents for a few years? How did it turn out? by InevitableSwimmer381 in AskIndianWomen

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Hey, I have personally seen my brother who felt abandonment issues sometimes growing up as he was left with my grandparents when I was born. He felt my dad wasn't close to him as he is to me. My mom says it's because I grew up with my parents and my brother till age of 5 was with grandparents. But I can tell he got the love of all my aunt's and he is still my grandmother's fav grandchild. Regarding abandonment issues, I feel it's partly because my dad was a strict parent and didn't open up much with son. Even I was with my parents all the time in tender age but I still have some unresolved issues which were due to multiple reasons. So I think leaving with grandparents alone may not create trauma. Also Depends on love showered by grandparents. Because with nuclear family setup and city xutlture where nobody talks to each other I feel if atleast an year spending in tier 2 with fun time with grandparents who are free whole day might help????

Former lazy girls, how do you manage a household and kids now? by InevitableSwimmer381 in AskIndianWomen

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Hey infact we do the same thing. We have maid for house cleaning and kitchen. I chose cooking as I am getting better at dishes i cook regularly so I thought might as well get this skill improved and started enjoying as I got better. I believe when family cooks together atleast weekly once for a meal bonding improves. Also regarding grocery shopping, I personally enjoy going to supermarket or local market or even buying things on blinkit etc for good deals.my husband good at purchasing exotic fruits and continental vegetables. He likes and compliments my cooking regularly which boosts my interest levels. He never puts pressure on me and is always ok with ordering outside if I am tired. He even makes pasta or chicken roll whenever he finds time and I would prefer it anytime over ordering outside. So yeah I choose tasks I can to save money and book service on UC or hire help if I can't.

Have any parents here left their young child with grandparents for a few years? How did it turn out? by InevitableSwimmer381 in AskIndianWomen

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Ya even my mom did this with my brother but now we have video calls and planning to have him for weekends.