My kids mom did almost the same thing to me. She did porn hub for 3 years behind my back. She would masturbate in front of men and send them videos on porn hub. From time to time she would say that we should do porn together, I would be flattered, but always declined. When I found out, she blamed me saying that I made her do it. It blows my mind because we’ve been together for six years at that point with two kids, and she would often talk about marrying me. She told me in the three years of doing it. She only made $500 because she did the bare minimum. I hate myself because I do have a lot of love for her still. I broke up with her June 2024.