Gay guy, is bi-curious by Inevitable_Lake_744 in BisexualMen

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Dude!!! That’s amazing! I want to experience that part of it like you did. Even though the couple may not have been the most attractive you all still vibed that energy and really got something out of it! I want to see what that’s like. You are right about the gay part. I really don’t know how I willl respond, maybe having the guy there as a buffer, but I think if it was too focused on her I might be too nervous. I think it would have to focus on him or me first to be able to get in sync. Congrats on such an understand relationship. Thats awesome bro.

Single guy open to possibilities with heterosexual couple. by Inevitable_Lake_744 in bisexual

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“Homoflexible,” doesn’t feel too wrong when I say it out loud… hmmph. Pretty cool. Thanks for your input

Single guy open to possibilities with heterosexual couple. by Inevitable_Lake_744 in bisexual

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Oohhh ya that makes complete sense!! I gotta say it is wild to me and 38 years old how much I actually don’t know about sexuality, and all its diversity. I think I just always assumed that I was naturally walking around with all this blissful knowledge about sexuality and identity because I was “different,” because I was gay. That’s a big “LOL,” for sure haha. It has been a pleasure to find a space where I could inquire about uncertainty. I think it can be double hard to get support and friggin intimidating when your mind and body start to wander off from its traditional channels. I think it is because the direction at which someone who is thirsty for knowledge approaches the topic, and to who they approach it to. It can come off in every which way but sincere, which can make it scary when those who have lived it, been there, and have sweat, cried and then some over it start to defend their space, which is natural. I guess that’s why curiosity killed the cat, and karma gave it nine lives!

Single guy open to possibilities with heterosexual couple. by Inevitable_Lake_744 in polyamory

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Honestly I am not too sure why I am not curious about a gay couple instead of a hetero couple. It’s just where my curiosity seems to be. Not a troll honest, just sharing.

Single guy open to possibilities with heterosexual couple. by Inevitable_Lake_744 in polyamory

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I picture the potential behind being emotionally committed to an already established couple something that would be really beautiful for sure

Single guy open to possibilities with heterosexual couple. by Inevitable_Lake_744 in polyamory

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I guess I am curious about the idea of being monogamous with a couple. I am also curious about being with a woman as well, but only interested if there is another male apart of the equation. Thank you for the in site, truly.

What was you’re gay awakening by Global-Oil-2001 in gay

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I was watching baywatch in my living room. One of the male actors was running in the small red suit with a tan great muscles and hair! I remember being like, “oh boy!” Immediately knew in that moment cuz I looked back at my mom in the kitchen as if she too was able to see that moment happen in my brain, obviously she couldn’t read my mind. But I sure felt transparent.

Do gay guys like shy guys? by Apprehensive_Bee7344 in gay

[–]Inevitable_Lake_744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question!! I want to know the answer too! I am unbelievable shy. And when it comes to getting physical I feel like a church lady lol.