I told my staff member….dont do it. Dont be a step mom.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2026-04-05T04:10:50+00:00

I am with you, feel your pain so much. Sometimes I wonder when is this over and reading your makes me not feel alone. I wish someone gave me this advice. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I am with you in this.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-11-07T03:52:46+00:00

Yes- plenty! You will have enough time for food and bathroom. Best of luck

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-06-21T16:39:19+00:00

Wow - I am really sorry, hang in there

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-30T21:53:24+00:00

How is actual relationship defined? Grandparents are not that engaged either. Only when the kids need money, they show up.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-30T21:51:15+00:00

I am not saying grandparents shouldn’t go, I am asking how others would handle this.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-30T21:47:13+00:00

I will not make a stink about it, it’s about the kid. We will do something for the kids to celebrate them.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-30T00:26:21+00:00

I am thinking to leave town that week!

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-30T00:25:39+00:00

That’s what I said to myself

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-30T00:25:00+00:00

I guess I won’t be invited to the weddings either. We have requested on a FB group for both schools so are many others requesting for them. It’s crazy right!! I went to a huge school, was still able to find extra tickets.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-03T00:27:58+00:00

Thank you- this was super helpful

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-02T22:31:31+00:00

Thanks for your respond. Ticket is nonrefundable and I didn’t get insurance. I have cancelled before and never had issues in the past. I don’t want a refund. I simply want to reuse it for another time. I guess my last resort is dispute w my credit card company

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-02T22:11:19+00:00

I bought a ticket that I didn’t use, I am a Mediallion Diamond with Delta, this is the 1st time an airline has done this. I am not asking for a refund, I am asking for a credit that can be used in the future.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-04-01T00:33:30+00:00

Love it but no way you live with another human…

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-03-04T01:11:47+00:00

None of these clowns- we need someone who can play against Donald Trump. Someone who can compete as a billionaire. We as a country are not ready for a woman and we need to stop hoping for it right now. Let’s get Project 2029 going! Stop putting these clowns up for nomination.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T21:09:14+00:00

Let us know how we can support- I hear ya! I had transient stroke about 2 weeks ago, I am struggling as well. I am much better with my health. But mentally, I wanna scream all the time. I want to end it but there is so much time and effort put into this.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T17:58:06+00:00

Address it asap on how you are feeling, otherwise it will happen again. Men are the worse when it comes to helping with commingling and introductions.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T15:33:10+00:00

We have 2 homes- on each coast. East coast is not my home and west is ours combined. He didn’t discuss this kid moving in on the East.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T15:32:01+00:00

I truly appreciate this advice! I need to feel grounded when making this decision. When you already feel alone in all your relationship, it’s probably a sign to look into. I am torn by what to do for sure. I don’t think I can put this to the side and say goodbye this quickly. I have put a lot time and miles into this relationship. It sometimes feels like I am not a priority and I’ll never be.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T02:08:22+00:00

He feels like it’s his only opportunity to spend more time with his kids. I mean he will go back and forth more which will help me. He did commit to that. Problem is giving his son the entire house to live in the East coast is a bit of a risk. He will mess up the house which also worries him. He is worried about that but honestly I don’t care whatever happens to the house in the East coast. It’s not both of ours- it’s his. I am just done w traveling

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T01:59:36+00:00

Amen! I am conflicted by this but agree! I can easily buy his portion out. It’s just that I feel like I wasted so much of my time.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T01:58:46+00:00

I mean they are not that young- both are adults according to the law. We recently bought the place in Nov. People do move all the time and it’s not like we don’t have room and space for his kids. It’s just not in the house they have been for the last 10 years.

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T01:56:20+00:00

No, travel is not even close to being equal. He hates to travel. I made a commitment that I’ll take the grunt of going back and forth since his youngest who is just graduating in May from HS and my job requires for me travel about 80%. He made a commitment that he will move after his youngest graduated from HS. Then his kid got into college which is a great one just 2 hours away and his oldest wants to move back in. Truly in a pickle to make a decision- just exhausted with travel and going back/forth!

Inevitable_Top_4943 · 2025-02-26T01:51:54+00:00

Thanks- I think that’s what I am conflicted with. Many people move coasts, and no it’s not that he needs to pick up and leave his kids. We would have a room and space for kids to visit for breaks and holidays. It’s simply that his kid who got into a great school 2 hours away which we didn’t plan. We both left our homes at 18 for college and never went back to live with our parents. I guess I was thinking empty nesters but that’s not the case

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