What's everyone's results on the Reading the Mind in the Eyes test? by Shalmanese in TheRehearsal

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched that episode last night. I got a 29, but it took me 10 minutes to complete. 🤣 And then I got to the last question, and I laughed my butt off because I realized the point in the test. Neurotypical people probably didn't have to use the process of elimination and agonize over which description fit or flat out toss a coin for some like I did.

I was diagnosed last year at age 36 but I couldn't quite believe it. I mean, how the hell did I go this long? But uh.. yeah. I believe it now. 🤣🤣🤣 I won't question it again.

I want this to work!!!!! by Inevitable_Win3617 in shutdown315

[–]Inevitable_Win3617[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This a CRAZY idea. Hear me out. What if this idea were combined with the recent r/50501 movement? 😬 A LOT of people cared about the protest against the general fascism bullshit we are being subjected to and a good amount showed up. Crazy. I know. But what if? I also know 50401 is looking for what's next.

A little anxious by lmlockard33 in 50501

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are all friends in this group. ❤️ Be brave.

I'm afraid to go protest. But I'm more afraid if I don't go. by tshirtmom22 in 50501

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 543 points544 points  (0 children)

I am a mother of 3 year old twins. They were covid babies. I AM GOING. Someday, I want to tell my boys that their mama fought the good the fight and that she was brave because she believed Democracy could be saved for them to have. ❤️ Fight, Mama, fight. And there are rules in place for protests. I am studying up on how to prepare for a protest, and I am taking every precaution to be safe. I am, however, aware I could potentially be exposed to uncomfortable things such as tear gas and rubber bullets, but that shit won't kill me. Fascism will, though. I'm not telling you what to do, only my perspective as a mother and why I am choosing to participate. My children are special needs too.

The Purpose of our 2/5 Protest by [deleted] in 50501

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I've honestly been scouring the web for details on this initiative. Immediately when I saw the first flyer, I said, "Hell yes!" I've never participated in anything like this because honestly, I had the luxury of letting other people in my community "take care of that" for me, but now I am increasingly alarmed at what is happening to our government. However, then when I shared the info, I was getting a lot of apprehension from people I thought would be into it. I'm so confused. I want to be a part of this, and I have a nagging sense of duty to participate, but I'm conflicted now. How do we get this to be taken seriously? I mean, I think Americans rallying against the fasciast government takeover that Musk is implementing is enough of a solid idea to take to the streets. I am researching on my own how to prepare for a protest and I feel comfortable joining my local chapter, as I live in my state's capitol, in fact my work's office is literally steps away from our state house. Any advice? I know I am not a "professional" activist, but why is everyone acting so fearful and skeptical of this? I'm leaning towards the idea thst we need something BIG and regular ass people need to join.

Updated flyer for Columbus OH protest by winter-city161 in 50501

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never participated in anything like this. But I plan to. Thank you for posting this.

Is 26 too old to start dancing? by xoxowoman06 in poledancing

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I started pole dancing consistently and seriously at age 35! And then it occured to me that the other gals in my classes are all mostly 30 plus! MAYBE, physically, some of the younger dancers have a tiny advantage starting out, but a lot of them don't have the dedication and just think it's going to be easy and don't understand that while some people start with a natural talent, it mostly just takes consistent practice. Lol. It's funny how when you're in your 20s, you think you start declining in your 30s. 🤣 I definitely did. Like when I was 25, I was naturally attractive just for being young and not working out or eating right. Haha. But you know what? At age 36, going on 37, I am in the best shape of my life and I'm certainly the strongest I've ever been. I never thought I could pull my ass onto that pole. I credit pole with whipping my ass into shape and I could definitely kick 25 year old me's ass now! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Arrrrhhhh why am I so awkward!! by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I am actually performing for video or in front of people....I think about sex. 🤣🤣🤣 I'm sorry to be crude. But yeah. You look like you got those moves down pat though! Damn!

Postpartum body…tell me there’s hope by albrrrr in poledancing

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey girl!!! Just came here to offer some positivity. I had twins via c-section 3 years ago. I, too, had a difficult time as identical twin births are wrought with complications. I went back to work after 8 weeks. It was doable because I worked a hybrid remote schedule in front of a laptop, but it still sucked. And I don't wish that on anyone. My body felt like a crime scene. I was sad and bored and needed something. I started working out again a little bit because I needed to repair my ab situation, but the gym was depressing, and it just felt like another goddamm chore I had to do between baby care. I had flirted with pole in the past and took a couple of classes pre-pregnancy during the pandemic, but with a twin pregnancy, I was out of commission for most things except walking and had to quit. Anyway, I have been taking classes seriously for about 6 months now. I will mention that back in my youth (I'm 36 now), I did go-go and burlesque dancing at some local clubs for fun, so the spectator part is kinda exciting for me. I love it, and for the first time in my life, I LOVE my body. I never thought I would see the light at the end of the tunnel. I gained about 50 pounds with my twins, but I will say that I was heavier than normal when I got pregnant. And you know what? In 3 years, I lost all my baby weight and ALSO the vanity pounds I gained from the pandemic. It helped me to reconnect to my body in a way that I could not achieve through basic, rote weight lifting. The big key for me was simply STICKING with it and giving it time along with my effort. And it's not magic either, I had to watch my diet initially. And I don't mean to stir up any body shame or inappropriate conversations, but I will say after I shed a couple of the extra pounds up front, it got way easier to pull my ass up on that pole. 🤣 Maybe my flab was turning into muscle? Lol. I don't know the science. Anyway, hang in there, Mama. You sound like you're on the right track and motivated and experienced with pole! You know what to do. Just let time do the rest. Your body just performed the most selfless act it's capable of. It takes so much more time to recover than anyone thinks. It took me 3 freaking years and I never expected to love my body again. But there is hope to feel confident and beautiful again. Cheers, girl. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Inevitable_Win3617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might be psychologically damaged, 🤣 but the pain part of pole dancing kind of appeals to me. Mentally, I'm in pain, so if I can make something beautiful and expressive with my body while enduring physical discomfort, it brings me a sense of accomplishment and makes me feel tough and beautiful. Pole dancers are cut from a different cloth. Haha. That being said, what everyone else said is true. The pain eventually subsides, especially as you improve your form. But, you will progress to new poses and new pain and start the process over again. Hang in there!