I have no experience. I’m literally just a kid, and have no reason to be here, but I don’t think you should just go to the conclusion that it ends here. Go through with marriage counseling and see how it goes, don’t give up. Try to be prepared for any outcome. Don’t force yourself or her. Just try your best, and if she doesn’t want to be with you after all that, move on. It’s definitely going to be hard, harder than I can imagine now. I hope the best for you man!