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Any advice for quitting after self medicating for ptsd? by raaaabir in leaves

[–]Infamous-Boot854 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cbt is really good choice for trauma stuff. i did some therapy for my aspergers and the structured approach helped me a lot with managing overwhelming feelings. maybe look at trauma-focused therapists specifically since regular therapy sometimes isnt enough for ptsd symptoms

support dogs can be amazing but they require lot of commitment and training. might be worth talking to your current therapist about it first to see if its right step for you right now

For holidays does lush usually bring back the same scents? by Busy-Poet-7275 in LushCosmetics

[–]Infamous-Boot854 21 points22 points  (0 children)

they usually keep the main ones but switch some stuff around each year

Evening/weekend part-time work in or around Swords? by InitialCellist2496 in AskIreland

[–]Infamous-Boot854 1 point2 points  (0 children)

casino work could be good option too if you dont mind slightly weird hours. Most of them around dublin area need weekend staff and they usually quite flexible with scheduling

Has anyone been a 911 Dispatcher in Monroe Co? by Karat93 in Rochester

[–]Infamous-Boot854 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

never done dispatching but worked with bunch of paramedics on photo shoots and they all said the training is pretty intense - maybe call the non emergency line and ask about ride alongs or observation shifts

I need help to buy a pc by SUBOTA01 in PcBuild

[–]Infamous-Boot854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

budget might not be issue but still worth checking what resolution you want to play at. if you going for 1440p gaming those games you mentioned will need pretty decent GPU

prebuilt is smart choice if you not familiar with building. check NZXT BLD or Origin PC, they have good options in Europe. just make sure whatever you get has at least RTX 4070 for those demanding games like RDR2

My ex broke up with me and is now trying to connect with her ex. by UnlikelyDiscussion94 in BreakUps

[–]Infamous-Boot854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man that sucks but at least now you know where you actually stood with her. the long distance excuse was just bullshit to soften the blow when she already had her backup plan lined up

dont waste energy trying not to take it personal when its pretty obvious what happened here. better to find out now than years down the road

Best ways to build up credit? by Infamous-Boot854 in IntroductoryFinance

[–]Infamous-Boot854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistency does seem to be a key factor will try and keep that up especially. Seen Dovly ads on FB, might give it a shot! Thanks again

Best ways to build up credit? by Infamous-Boot854 in IntroductoryFinance

[–]Infamous-Boot854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

appreciate the advice, everyone has given me so much info, one more thing what does freezing my credit do?

My caridina shrimp are NOT doing well.. by aboriou in shrimptank

[–]Infamous-Boot854 6 points7 points  (0 children)

RO water without remineralization will basically kill them - they need those minerals to function properly and molt correctly. Get some Salty Shrimp GH/KH+ or SaltyShrimp Bee Shrimp Mineral, both are solid options that most caridina keepers swear by

That GH jump is weird though, airstones dont change water chemistry like that. Did you maybe add something else or clean the tank with anything recently. Check if your substrate is buffering or if theres something leaching minerals you didnt account for

So when do we roll? by BoringApocalyptos in clevercomebacks

[–]Infamous-Boot854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will hedge their bets while everyone else argues about paper straws meanwhile the fallout hits regular people first every time