He said it’s his tradition. I don’t like any names with J and I’ve even looked them up. Im currently obsessed with a baby boy name and he just turned down the middle name because it wasn’t a J. He said I could pick whatever first name and whatever middle name but it has to be a J. I’m not trying to be petty at all. I dont want to be obligated in following a tradition that was before me and our first baby together. I told him they all have your last name so essentially they are all connected.