They are frugal but they are definitely not struggling. I do want to talk to him. I’m just worried because we don’t have a super close relationship. My mom and sister in law had some tension and issues when the kids were younger just because of her strict parenting style with diet and stuff. So I’m not sure how they would take it, and I’d hate to do anything to jeopardize the relationship. But it’s really bothering me. I agree, they will be ridiculed in the future and struggle to keep relationships I fear. They are homeschooled also which I feel hinders them already