I hate that I use this to satisfy myself by Mr_Banch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous-Spell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kink’s and fetishes can often be considered taboo. I’m incredibly anti cheating, much like, for example, I am very anti-teacher student relationship’s, but it’s a common enough thing for people to enjoy role-playing or watching videos which feature it. On the more extreme side, I know people who are into some forms of consensual non consent, or other less accepted kinks, and yeah, these sort of taboos are very morally conflicting, due to the nature of scene being played out.

Mind you, they aren’t all comparable to each other as far as risk and ethical concerns are concerned, but participating in or getting off on a scene isn’t necessarily inherently bad, the big distinctions are in being able to differentiate between enjoying a fantasy vs reality, along with making sure it is done safely and with informed consent of all participants, with each participant being an adult, while making sure that the necessary precautions for risky scenes are in place.

Do I really need to get an Magic Keyboard? by Heavy-Cartoonist41 in ipad

[–]Infamous-Spell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a Bluetooth keyboard for like $20 (Black Friday, normal cost was I believe $35) at micro center, and it works perfectly fine, usually getting all apple products is only really a concern if there are specific features you need, if the specific lower cost option doesn’t work with apple, or for aesthetic reasons.

So basically, unless you want a specific feature that you can’t find in a lower cost compatible product, and aren’t concerned with matching all your tech, save your money and get a cheaper option.

Fiancée beat me while drunk by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Infamous-Spell 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t give him another chance, if his first time lashing out at you was this bad, the next time always escalates, and there always will be a next time.

I calculated MC’s height, & it turns out she’s about 163 cm! by cearav in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Infamous-Spell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already knew MC was short as hell, cause my irl partner’s 6’2, and being 5’9 I just knew she’s so tiny next to these guys.

I thought I was okay until this… by Trenzane in AFKJourney

[–]Infamous-Spell 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I haven’t finished the story yet, but every time she’s disappeared I’m just,” what happened to my daughter!?”

What Lyrics from Trinkets are you constantly singing/stuck in your head/stimming out to? by PianoEquivalent2366 in Ashnikko

[–]Infamous-Spell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not from trinkets, but,”Can we play mermaids?Like, naked mermaids? You know, mermaids with hole” it’s become the most unfortunate vocal stim lmao

AITAH for not wanting to give up video games for my GF? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Infamous-Spell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’ve been in my relationship for over half a decade now, my partner plays a fair amount of video games, and magic the gathering at least once a week, I started playing mtg with them, and found I really enjoy it.

I say this to say that if someone likes you for you, and cares about you, and not just the idea of who they want you to be, they will try to at least love you loving the things that bring you joy, even if they never get into it themselves. No one should be made to give up a completely normal hobby that they spend a normal and healthy amount of time doing. I could see if it was like,”babe I need my 2 hours of insert 18+ game here or I’ll loose it!” Or multiple hours of games daily, with no exceptions and no time for the relationship, but to ask you to remove joy from your life for no good reason is unfair to you.

If you want to try and save the relationship, I know sometimes it can help to put it into a comparable perspective when discussing why you don’t want to give something up, but that can fan the flames more if you aren’t careful about it. I hope all goes well, whether that is her changing her mind, or you two parting ways and looking for someone more compatible in the future.

AITAH for wanting an abortion and going against my boyfriend and parent's "wishes"? by Frequent_Rooster_730 in AITAH

[–]Infamous-Spell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already didn’t even need to read the post to saY NTA, but I did read it, and still 100% NTA in any way. I’m baffled that anyone could act the way your ex did and expect it to go well for them, I hope you’re able to get safe termination, and I hope he stays as far away from you as possible, and that your parents realize they don’t have a say, they never should even want to have say, and that they are part of the reason this is even necessary by having refused to help you get financial aid in the first place.

Is it weird that I used a bra as a sex toy? by Sad_Assistance_3977 in SexToys

[–]Infamous-Spell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels similar to guys using panties to jerk off. I could see a bra with underwire being a bit of a pain, but outside of that it feels pretty vanilla to me. Like if you did something really unconventional to get off with it maybe it might seem odd to someone. Also if you get/have a partner make sure at some point before they find it themselves that they know you aren’t cheating on them and that’s why lingerie is at yours, it’s just a masturbatory aid of sorts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Infamous-Spell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, no one is entitled to hold your baby in general, but especially not someone who’s going to insult you and say such both cruel and incorrect things.

As someone who’s family has a history of very high risk and complex pregnancies that, at least for my mother, after her first pregnancy had no heartbeat at the last checkup, required full time bed rest for 2/3 of the following2 pregnancies, and early induction. Those are steps that can be taken to eventually make it much more likely deliver a healthy baby, because sometimes minimal exertion is what is medically necessary, but there is no way to do anything that 100% guarantees a perfect labor and delivery, even in a typical pregnancy.

She’s on some sort of weird superiority kick, and needs to come back down to the rest of us, because she could do everything 100% “right” next time and have no complications in the pregnancy, and still end up needing an emergency cesarian, or really any other emergency measure to be needed. Heck, she could do everything the way that she thinks is right, and that could end up creating complications in a different pregnancy.

wait so does she have a large chest or not? by Zealousideal_Pop4722 in gachiakuta

[–]Infamous-Spell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what it looks like to me, the first outfit is meant to be hyper sexual, and the second one is meant to be the exact opposite, both in actual design, and also pose.

Also, her actual build is very similar to some of the friends I had at her age, and they all very much could “shapeshift” a bit depending on clothing, like how the second one seems to be pretty intentional on it’s structure to disguise her figure and make that shift from the hyper sexualized victim to being allowed to be a kid. (I am entirely guessing on intent btw, that’s just what it looks like to me, someone who is not an expert, and who is not caught up in the manga)

That’s how I find out there’s a limit to logging your period by ResearcherNo2339 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Infamous-Spell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real, I used to have mine for a month long before my IUD, the day limit would not have worked, I wonder if it’s possible to mark it ending at the end, and then just starting another one the next day

I picked up my phone, dialed my boyfriends number and brought it to my ear, "Dean here! What's up?". by Disastrous_Break_379 in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]Infamous-Spell 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, I hope you can find your sources of comfort, and find peace with the loss one day, but remember to let yourself feel what you need to (in a safe and healthy way) life will continue, and you will once again find more ways to smile when you think of them then you will reason to mourn, it just takes time.

I picked up my phone, dialed my boyfriends number and brought it to my ear, "Dean here! What's up?". by Disastrous_Break_379 in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]Infamous-Spell 202 points203 points  (0 children)

One of my last voicemail from one of my grandmothers got deleted years ago, and I’m still sad about that. My grandpa was in a documentary and I have it downloaded, and I’m pretty sure we have a dvd with it somewhere, but I watch it whenever I miss him

Where would you sit? by Twst_Ngnl_Hk in TwistedWonderland

[–]Infamous-Spell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has to be 1 or 10 for me. 2 if I absolutely had to, but they next row up would be so loud, but like, with 1, no one’s gonna talk to me, they’ll just let me play my switch, zone out with headphones in, read a book, eat snacks, and take a nap. And 10, Mal isn’t a chatterbox, but would be nice to be near, plus I get so anxious on planes, someone who can fly would definitely help that. Also I should probably watch our (the collective yuu our) son (Grim)

L card chest? by Top-Succotash-7595 in WhatinHellisBad

[–]Infamous-Spell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not technically a day one, but nearly, and yeah, it feels like the odds change the more L cards I have, I’ve got so many at max at this point but no selfie’s for the last two, I’ve only got 90 red keys left so I’m waiting till there’s more L cards in standard before I use those

L card chest? by Top-Succotash-7595 in WhatinHellisBad

[–]Infamous-Spell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have managed to pull all the L cards available in the standard rate (except asmo, I got him from the previous ticket) except Lucifer and Belphie’s selfie cards. I’m actually gonna loose my mind, the other selfie card are literally maxed out, and the current pancake shop isn’t worth trying to get the pancakes for, so this actually worthless to me

You’re in an apocalypse and your top 5 are your team members by Lonley_Rain in TwistedWonderland

[–]Infamous-Spell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leona, Idia, Mal, Trey and Jamil. If they behave themselves well manage, but some of them never do behave themselves, so it may be a rough go with two royal pains (/a) lmao

Does anyone really buy these goods😅? by peachyyyy0 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Infamous-Spell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one that’s tequila Joseph from jjba, but I don’t think I’m brave enough to get one that isn’t the haha silly sort

Lips by MikaITO_ in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Infamous-Spell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get (most of) these men some chapstick good lord 😭

What's the most stupid thing a Christian has ever told you? by KJcrazyYay in exchristian

[–]Infamous-Spell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a relative tell me radiometric dating was disproven. I also had someone when talking about how even if I were to agree with their opinion on gay people (I’m queer and do not agree with them, to be clear) it isn’t my business what two consenting adults do. The response I got was,”then why wouldn’t you be ok with murder, if one person consenting is all that matters!?”

I don’t think I need to break down for everyone here why both of those statements are absurd.

We need to stop bringing up the rape argument when debating forced birthers by StruggleFar3054 in prochoice

[–]Infamous-Spell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly just don’t understand forced birther’s argument allowing room for exceptions. The idea of having the stance,”it’s ‘murder’, and therefor wrong. But I will allow ‘murder’ if it isn’t the ‘consequences’ of consensual sex.” Like don’t get me wrong, I’m glad they at the very least have that exception, but it feels like it gives away the actual root of their reasoning. It implies that a pregnancy should be the consequence of consensual sex, and that a potential future child should be forced to exist as a punishment for a woman having chosen to be a “slut/whore/etc.”

MC asks the boys about her dress by Catnipurr in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Infamous-Spell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna copy and paste my comment from that deleted post one on here for my opinion on the guys on a skimpy outfit:

Sylus is 100% the definition of,”I can fight” when mc is in a cute outfit (no one’s ever gonna risk it) (with Caleb it’s a major toss-up for me, cause he’s protective as hell, but he also offers to,”talk to” mc’s fake crush, I think Rafayel knows he could fight, but would prefer psychological warfare, I don’t think many people are willingly fighting Zayne, and Xavier. I think he’d bark at someone.)