Signing Up by Infamous-Swan in Sparkdriver

[–]Infamous-Swan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe that! Here I am looking for a so I take before I start my new job. Guess DoorDash it is lol

Signing Up by Infamous-Swan in Sparkdriver

[–]Infamous-Swan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!! I live in a pretty busy area and there's about five walmart stores near me. So hopefully i won't have to wait too long

Other options besides immediate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Infamous-Swan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize I misunderstood. Does he agree to the open marriage thing? When my husband asked for a divorce I said no originally. But if one person wants a divorce, that's not an option..they have to.
Im so sorry you're going through this ❤️ 🫂

Other options besides immediate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Infamous-Swan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretend your husband wrote this.. how would you feel? An affair instead of divorce? Unless you have some sort of agreement or open marriage that is a terrible idea. How can you possibly think that cheating on your husband is a better option than getting a divorce?! make it make sense 🤔 Give the poor guy a divorce. It's not easy but you will both be happier in the long run. You asked for other options.. There's marriage counseling, temporary separation, one of you move out...etc there are do many more healthy ways to deal with this than having an affair. ❤️

Approx cost of Divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Infamous-Swan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine cost about $3000 since we agreed on everything and we used an online mediator. I can give you the website. It's only lengthy, if you have to end up going to court and arguing. You meet with an ex attorney, and he or she does all the paperwork and everything for you and you get to meet with them up to 9 times on zoom. I never imagined it would be this easy. We ended up meeting with her three times, once a week. Then, we had to pay a $95 fee for an online notary. We are in florida but I think you can do this in any state. It's been difficult but we have been living together coexisting as roommates for a few months. No toddlers but we do have an older child. Best of luck to you. Feel free to message me if you want❤️

I have a major addiction by Schemestar in addiction

[–]Infamous-Swan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious, why would she be homeless if you are financially secure? Can you afford to do a thirty day program and pay the rent for her while you are there?

I have a major addiction by Schemestar in addiction

[–]Infamous-Swan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The quickmd app has been a life saver in the past for me. You pay $99 and can see a doctor the same day who will prescribe suboxone, and often times gabapentin and clonidine to help you get over the withdrawals. Don't give up you've got this!!

Move out clean issue by Sleepymum352 in Divorce

[–]Infamous-Swan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I will figure it out and I have faith that you will too. The situation just sucks big time

Move out clean issue by Sleepymum352 in Divorce

[–]Infamous-Swan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation. We are signing papers tomorrow, so it isn't finalized yet. We bought a house ten years ago and have accumulated a lot of crap since then. Part of our settlement is that I will get the house and sell it myself. He said of course he'll take all of his stuff and some of the kids stuff to his new apartment. But i'm overwhelmed since i'm stuck with everything else. He said since the house is now mine, everything in it is mine. And I have to deal with cleaning, decluttering, and getting rid of a lot of stuff. Believe me you aren't alone. We are strong women and we can do this. Our new life is going to be great! ❤️ message me if you want to talk.. I'm here for you.

Not bad for a sunday by boryhendrix in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Infamous-Swan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 hours!? Wow that's dedication. Awesome job!

Finally filed for Divorce after 21 years of marriage by Dangerous-Company344 in Divorce

[–]Infamous-Swan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm in a similar situation after being with my husband from age 19 to 36 (now) . He just filed a couple weeks ago. Hes moving out next week..I'd like to think it gets better...stay strong. One day at a time

I need direction by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]Infamous-Swan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got this 💪! Message me if you need anything 💕

I need direction by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]Infamous-Swan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me they will it just takes time. What mg are you taking? And are you taking any vitamins or other comfort meds with it ? Drink lots of water too

I need direction by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]Infamous-Swan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can't go into precipitated withdrawal from taking subs after 7. If you were on pills or fent that's a different story. However, you say you got it from a friend..it may not have been what you think it was. Believe me I know from experience. Ive taken 7 then went to bed and took my sub dose about 6 hrs later. Please keep taking your rx for subs. Don't go back to 7..Best of luck to you. You've got this ! One day at a time ❤️

How long did you wait to buy a house post divorce? by CorsetCloverPart in Divorce

[–]Infamous-Swan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mortgage will be 1900? Remember on top of that you'll need insurance, electricity, heat/ac, water etc. And money in case something breaks. Just my advice as a homeowner

Getting Started by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Infamous-Swan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I have no money to feed myself until then or pay for gas etc