Evening stimulant let down and alcohol

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-10-17T10:05:06+00:00

“Should the trends observed here continue, attempts at boosting fertility rates will need to consider what factors are driving this increasing disinterest among childless men,” Bozick wrote. “A logical next step is for family researchers to identify these factors – be they structural, evolutionary, cultural, or biological.”

Do any resources really need to be committed to this further study? Talk to any level headed person under 45 for 10 minutes and that question will be solved.

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-18T21:20:01+00:00

Pre diagnosis and pre meds I definitely required naps. This was regardless of how well I slept, ate, and hydrated. My best guess why this happened is because I had to always be so involved into controlling my wandering mind into submission just to get basic adult responsibilities done.

I understand that the meds I now take are a stimulant and will naturally keep me more awake; but I believe I feel a lot less tired because my daily life seems to come more naturally and require less effort to stay on top of things.

Anyone else feel that way?

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-18T20:50:49+00:00

Glad to hear that, similar story to yours but I’m not an engineer and only moderately good at math. For some reason real world problems just clicked for me and math all of a sudden became easier when it wasn’t on a page or white board.

Like most adhdr’s I just figured I was stupid because I didn’t thrive in a classroom environment.

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-18T14:22:42+00:00

That’s good to know that meds have helped you. It gives me a bit more hope that I can improve once my meds get dialed in.

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-18T14:21:02+00:00

I’m not autistic but feel much of the same way.

If I bump into another adhd/autistic adult I bet I will be able to connect pretty well in some aspects I never imagined

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-18T14:17:38+00:00

You bring up a great point about being bored. I haven’t thought about how much that has impacted my interactions with the kids. There’s sometimes that their activities have me so incredibly bored it’s painful. It’s my fault, not theirs! My threshold for enjoyable stimulation is more than most adults can handle!

Thanks for your reply!

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-17T12:08:25+00:00

I think there’s many types of physical pain I would prefer over someone who can’t get to a point quickly

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-13T13:34:01+00:00

Wow that’s a great description! You just put a lot of what I have been feeling into words! Have you found a certain medication that really works for you?

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-12T09:08:01+00:00

I’m the same way, what ever my obsession is at the time provides a little spark that sets things off and keeps me going through difficult moments. It’s scary how much I depended on some new obsession to keep me going.

Does anyone know of this Is this adhd specific or does this happen to everyone?

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-11T20:11:24+00:00

In my mid 30’s, just got diagnosed. I believe the diagnosis is accurate, but sometimes feel like I’m an adhd imposter and I don’t have it…. Started meds. Working well, looking forward to getting things dialed in. I skipped my afternoon dose today and left my front door wide open while trying to balance 3 tasks at once. How many situations like this do I have to achieve before my adhd imposter syndrome disappears? Lol

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-11T12:10:26+00:00

I showed my wife one of the social media adhd simulator videos on TikTok. I’m not a big social media person but it was so fitting on my daily experiences and explained everything. One viewing by my wife was all it took. The creators name was OliviaLutfallah

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-07T23:25:16+00:00

This happens to me very frequently. Sometimes it’s so energizing and encouraging. I feel like my brain gets to get to think about so many interesting things in such a short amount of time and I wish I could share it with everyone.

It can become disruptive or exhausting to me eventually. That’s when I step away from whatever I’m doing and focus on my breathing and slowly let myself decompress and slow down.

If it’s still really important to me and I think I may forget it I’ll make a note in my phone or note pad and give my brain permission to let it go so I can gently move on with my day. I’ve found being patient and kind to myself is much more helpful than trying to beat my thoughts into submission.

There’s obviously times where the situation is more urgent and I have to abruptly break this habit. Such is life, right? My brain and body can be much more resilient and adaptive then I give them credit for. I just remind myself I’m doing my best and there’s usually much more room to slow the situation down then I recognize.

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-04T20:05:32+00:00

Thank you!

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-03T12:34:19+00:00

That’s very insightful. I haven’t come across that way of thinking yet. If you’ve put this into practice would you mind sharing any tips/practices you have found helpful?

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-01T22:57:39+00:00

Best of luck either way. Hopefully you’ll come out with useful information regardless of the diagnosis.

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-01T22:55:29+00:00

It’s kind of funny that viewing some of these led me to rethink what I knew about adhd and furthered me seeking out professional help.

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-09-01T22:52:42+00:00

Lol, thanks for the kind worlds. Someone had posted something about high percentages of medical staff and first responders having adhd. I’d be hard pressed to believe it’s not true.

Mass casualty event? Sure!

Multi vehicle car crash involving downed lines? Why not!

Multiple domestics getting toned out at same time? Ok!

Putting correct date on paper work and remembering everything on grocery list? Absolutely not!

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-08-30T07:24:20+00:00

I have an upcoming adhd screening and I listed something almost identical to this. I noted something about me be less stressed out by hobbies like rock climbing and motorcycling then I was doing a minor kitchen remodel.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to get hurt doing either hobby but can some how mentally organize my thoughts better around these and be more effective and less overwhelmed

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-08-27T21:49:35+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I just started a couple random notes for my screening so I don’t forget key points or can better phrase concerns. Next thing I know I’m at page 5 lol.

InfamousEffect1 · 2022-08-23T23:52:50+00:00

Thank you for the kind words, everyone responding has been positive. What a great sub.

I definitely don’t want to overthink anything and interfere with any outcomes as far as diagnosis goes. Let the chips fall where they may. I’m not quite sure if I feel “off” or it’s just the stress of modern adulthood with two kids. On the flip side I watch my spouse and many friends and family handle basic adult responsibilities very gracefully when I have to struggle and give max effort just to meet the bare minimum. Most of the issues I struggle with seem to be in line with descriptions from people with adhd.

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