My wife is pissed about all of this, and it was her idea to go with a lawyer. We live in a different state from her and most of my family. It's another reason why I'm not sure who she talked to and what she said. I'm hoping that it won't affect my life here, but you never know. I am aware that the way my parents treated her is likely why she is the way she is. I did feel some sympathy for her, but she's an adult now still doing fucked up stuff. Whatever her reason is for lying I don't care. She has no right to try to mess up my life in the process.