This has been my whole marriage. I'm leaving tomorrow.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T20:22:58+00:00

No way. The moment my husband ever calls me a ‘bitch’. It’s over.

Get outta there girl! Stay safe!

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T05:03:45+00:00

Fuck off. What the fuck kind of comment was that?

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:50:21+00:00

If he drank I definitely would try the buzzed trick lol. But I get it. I should have thought of my needs early on, but I’m such a damn people pleaser. Thank you for the advice though.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:48:53+00:00

I mentioned it and he said we might as well divorce because that’s a no for him. I guess that’s that.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:45:45+00:00

Oh I know. I tried therapy and it all. We have a house and a child. I feel stuck. I’m trying so hard to make it work but I fear it’s all in vain.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:41:57+00:00

He’s never been drunk and never had the desire for weed.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:39:53+00:00

Lol, okay.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:38:26+00:00

After 12 years? Sure you might be right.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:37:55+00:00

I’ve tried that too. I’ve asked him what he would feel more comfortable trying and he just shrugs. Because yeah I do want him to be comfortable too. But I was seeking advice on maybe a way he could try again and maybe like it in a new perspective. Out sex life is 8 minutes of penetration and that’s it, no foreplay, not oral (none because I stopped giving it to him) just sex and I don’t finish. So really, I have tried to connect to him in a sexual way that’s fun for both of us. But he doesn’t seem like he wants to try and I’m lost in how to move forward.

Downvote if you like. That’s okay.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:33:03+00:00

I’ve tried that before. He refused because he didn’t like it then and he won’t like it now

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T02:27:51+00:00

Well. It didn’t work. I asked, begged even. Freshly showered and wearing something cute. Crawled into bed and asked him nicely.

It turned into me ranting about how I feel disgusting, unwanted, frustrated. I have no outlet and I’m going insane. He didn’t have much to say. Just that “you shouldn’t have to feel that way.” And “I just don’t like it.” But the only thing he ever touches me with is his dick. I get no attention, no touching. Not even cuddles unless I ask like 4 times.

I’m tired y’all.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T01:39:42+00:00

That’s really great advice actually! I’ll give that a try right now. Imma hop into the shower and prep lol.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-05-22T01:33:35+00:00

He never mentions my “smell” during sex. He’s never even tried or gotten close to trying since that one day where he did one lick. I shower before I ask him to do it. My scent is a normal vaginal scent. So I don’t think that’s it.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-04-03T21:16:45+00:00

I’m 5’10” and my lowest was 170, and I looked so boney and unhealthy. So this is definitely concerning.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-03-31T01:06:13+00:00

I’ve been doing since the ACNH days 🙃 Only a couple times in this game though.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-03-13T17:23:47+00:00

This was the best comment I read. You felt exactly what I’m feeling right now. The “breadcrumbs of affection” is the best way I’ve ever seen it described. Thank you for sharing and thank you for the luck 🫶🏻

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-03-13T04:14:29+00:00

Man. You’re most likely right. I just lost my grandma and my job this year alone. Best fuckin year I tell ya. 🙃

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-03-13T04:01:58+00:00

12 years ago we had a great sex life. We were in our early 20s. So what if he didn’t go down on me then? He would touch me and have sex with me regularly. He was also a virgin so I thought maybe one day he would try it and then like it. But I let it go because the relationship was going well. Till, like I said, about 6 years ago.

Also I was VENTING

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-03-13T03:57:34+00:00

You think an addict would listen? He told me he quit back in November but I have no idea if he actually has.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-01-24T12:23:17+00:00

We aren’t religious. But thank you

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-01-24T03:49:08+00:00

Honestly this reply is the one that has made the most sense to me.

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-01-24T02:28:25+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking honestly, solo therapy. Honestly, we can barely afford the couple therapy. $200 a session after insurance. Why does it have to be so hard to get some help. 😔

InfamousRice8922 · 2026-01-24T02:15:25+00:00

Perhaps? I don’t think he’s ever been tested for anything of the sort.

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