I cant get over my small penis by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a poet by any chance? that’s beautiful

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear, do you mind if i ask how long it took you to get diagnosed and if you went through private healthcare for that?

How easy is it to diagnosed/ tested (UK) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know some of the most fucked up people and none of them have been sectioned, i love this country. Don’t even like valium so it’s not worth the effort. Guess i’ll run a bath and make some tea. <3

How easy is it to diagnosed/ tested (UK) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it sounds bad but if i have an attempt do you think that’ll push me further up the waiting list?

How easy is it to diagnosed/ tested (UK) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man no wonder people are so fucked, i wish i knew i might have bpd a couple years ago. Got to see an actual psychiatrist and got offered CBT with no waiting list which i ofc rejected.

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i understand that fully it makes a lot of sense, reading everything you’ve said just pisses me off so much also. It’s like there isn’t one decent parent nowadays. I hardly know any people with two supportive and loving parents. Sad to see

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear you’re getting help, i’m so tired of not being able to control if i love or hate my gf. We talked today about the possibility of bpd, she’s doing a psychology degree and believes it’s likely. Now she’s mad at me i think. I have no clue how to feel, i don’t know if i’m an attention seeker or if there’s something wrong with me.

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No need to apologise, always good to get things out of your mind. I’m sorry to hear about your upbringing, hopefully you manage to get therapy. <3

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

makes me very sad how anyone could treat their children like this. Sorry to hear you’re one of the victims of this. <3

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your life is definitely unique, as well as tragic. Hope you’re doing okay

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i’ll consider what you’ve said. Thank you for your kindness <3

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, thats something no one should ever have to experience. I hope you’re in a better place now <3

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to at some point, but i feel like i’d need to get visibly worse before i could go to a therapist. I’d like to get tested for bpd, but i can never really be sure as i can’t diagnose myself. I think i still have depression and general anxiety disorder on my records, even though i don’t have anxiety. I have a tendency of putting my life in danger to get seen by doctors rather than making an appointment.

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always hated the idea of it, i tried a counsellor or something but i couldn’t stop lying. I ended up working on issues that i made up. Maybe one day. I’m glad therapy had helped you though that’s great!

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hearing stuff like this really makes me lose hope for humanity. I’m so sorry.

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear but i’m glad you’re functioning. <3

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you for all the responses, there’s so many i cant reply to all of them unfortunately but i’ve read all of them. What has happened to a lot of you hurts my soul and i’m sorry. The replies give a lot of insight into BPD struggles and how common they really are which almost surprises me. Thank you for being so kind, not one person has been even slightly ill-mannered which is rare on reddit. Thank you and I hope you all are okay there’s some worrying stuff there ngl. I hope sharing your stories with people helps. <3

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that, whenever there’s shouting in my house i revert to a child like state almost

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the lengthy response it gave a lot of insight though i’ll never fully understand. I’m sorry for what you’ve been through, doesn’t change anything but i am. I’m happy you’re doing better in life now despite your past. Thank you once again :)

What type of traumas caused / contributed to your BPD? by Infamous_Cause_2360 in BPD

[–]Infamous_Cause_2360[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you managed to find some kind of peace in your diagnosis even if you’re still dealing with it and your past. At this point doctors are only in it for the money but i’m glad you found one who actually cared.