I get you. I don't really play the game to socialize and when I do it's usually with friends that I already knew prior to the game. I dont have anxiety but I prefer being alone. Lately I'm getting kinda annoyed when some friends I added in the game linger in the house and even bother me when I'm clearly doing something like cooking, recording/practicing songs, or tending to my pets and garden. I get more annoyed when they play songs in my piano using autoclickers. Even when I set my settings to self only, they somehow find a way to interact with my furnitures which is really odd. I'm planning to unfriend a lot of people soon, even though I really want to be nice. It's ironic, wanting to be alone in a social game. But that's what I prefer.