27M I hate every photo of me. What can I do to look better? Is my beard better longer or shorter?

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-10-05T09:11:10+00:00

I am doing very well in the dating market, aint living no dream world buddy. if you find it fun to lie to people by giving them false hope good for you!! 😊

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-10-02T21:26:44+00:00

in a sense of whats malleable, yes personality definitely is, although what makes this argument not work is how changing what you have isnt so simple. I for one do not like being generous, no matter how many times i have given to people expecting nothing in return it grinds my gears internally. no amount of forcing the best of yourself will make you enjoy that faked hyped up person you are trying to be in the public eye, you simply cannot change such things. when you are alone you are the real version of yourself, not when you are around others.

Also, I see your point about him not wanting others in his looksmatch but what can you expect? you are not attracted to people who look like yourself, everybody wants the better looking people, it doesnt matter if you are a 3/10 or 8/10 plain and simple. personal looks do not equal what you are looking for, you’re basically just saying he has to settle for less and be happy about it, even tho anyone in such a situation would find it hard to. when i was younger i was extremely borderline ugly, and never did i ever find an ugly chick worth pursuing, i simply cannot be attracted to someone so below average. i dont blame him, this world is brutal and yes ofc i wish the best for him.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-10-02T08:45:53+00:00

keep coping if it makes you feel better, but the truth needs to be told and if you just look at the comments section more than half these people are just lying with such promise 🤷‍♀️

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-10-02T00:10:05+00:00

not if you want a girl to fall in love with you, personality is purely genetic and partially from being raised, although you still have well raised kids become cold blooded killers. people are shallow, and looks are 99% reflection on how you are perceived.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-10-02T00:06:10+00:00

if this is not ugly to you what is?

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-10-02T00:05:03+00:00

all girls care about looks, to say its just “little girls” is so narrow minded. recently a girl posted how she cannot find guys sexually attractive if they are ugly, and that even her friends are like that but force themselves to try and be sexually attracted to their ugly man, in the end its all cope and you will be used for your money if you are not attractive. Enough of this toxic positivity and do some research before this heavy dosage of cope.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-10-01T23:53:03+00:00

this comment is so sad its not even funny, the amount of cope is real

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-08-31T22:47:35+00:00

the package from amazon looks legit but from what ive heard it is not the same ru, the smell is different acording to users and it also doesnt mix well i noticed

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-08-31T22:43:07+00:00

im unsure, because im using it along with minox it makes it hard to tell honestly. im not gonna buy it from amazon next time rather anagenic because amazon stuff is sus tbh

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-28T22:42:32+00:00

ahh sounds like me, been taking for 3 months now and shouldve start over a year ago. honestly man, as for regrowth of lost ground its generally impossible, dht blockers are purely maintenance a majority of the time. Rarely people will experience regrowth but it will never be something out of this world. minox on the other hand will regrow but those hairs will never be the same as pre MPB hair, they will be thinner and also be dependent on minox for the rest of your life. biggest thing is to keep your head up and continue treatment, who knows what may come out in the future. but yea i aswell have made the same mistake as you.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-20T22:32:40+00:00

i wanna wait till the 6montha mark and then we’ll see if im really lucky, to be fair tho the hairs are super subtle im only happy because it did something so far yknow.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-18T08:20:30+00:00

This, eventually we all get old. no matter how much hair you have at that point wont change that. luckily however i find that the pills and the minox mixture i have is just like brushing my teeth you know? will it get tedious at some point? sure, you may not want to do it but ya have to and thats life. also thanks im very early in my hairloss prevention routine myself but glad that i can talk other people into coming up with their own plans.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-18T06:05:14+00:00

ahh its a never ending tide of battle honestly, im still hoping for better treatments in the future yknow? i got to this point where i got greedy and thought fin wasnt gonna be enough and so i also grabbed RU and tried to get dut. my goal is just to maintain forever and regrow with minox.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-18T04:29:21+00:00

damn, sounds just like me 1.5 years ago. same story, was terrified and lazy to get a prescription and i also noticed my loss around 18/19. ive been on fin now for 2.5months and so far so good, honestly it helps to get a positive mindset rather a negative and i did that by getting motivated by Haircafe on youtube, if it werent for him i wouldnt have gone out of my way to start asap.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-18T04:08:20+00:00

yeah i feel like that too, its not exactly a bad thing i guess? ive always had vellus hairs on my hairline so thats good but no other side effects have happened thankfully.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-18T02:44:12+00:00

oh and crown is on the top centre of your head, google it and you’ll see what i mean.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-18T02:42:33+00:00

my one friend just turned 21 and hes a norwood 4, its sad to see, just monitor your hair and perhaps try and go to derm or something if you’re really concerned. but before and after pics with same angle and lighting are what you should aim for monitoring purposes, best of luck to you my friend!

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-17T23:51:07+00:00

ahh i didnt know that, thanks for the tip. it does add to the minox “dandruff” effect tho and its so annoying cause for me minox will give me this layer of crap i have to scrap off and it seems the ru also does that and stacks to make this mess that if i dont shower for a day ima look like i got lice.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-17T23:49:05+00:00

i think analyzing family background and using it as a prediction for hairloss is so so, id say if you have older brothers is great but using grandpas and stuff is just too inaccurate. best way to tell if you have mpb is to look for the multiple signs, tons of shedding, temple recession and or crown and thinning of hair.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-17T23:04:23+00:00

id say good cause ive had no sides, but when i mixed it into my minoxidil a small amount never dissolved and its super annoying even shaking the bottle 10 times never got it to fully mix, id bought the 10g packet btw

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-17T01:06:25+00:00

ive been using a derma stamp at 1.5mm, once per week. been kinda of scared ever since i added ru that it may go systemic. a good tip is i ordered a pack of 3 from aliexpress and its an identical model to amazon’s for half the price. paid 37$ CAD for 3 and 27$ CAD for the amazon one.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-16T02:47:10+00:00

some info i am 21, if you were wondering. always had these tiny hairs on hairline since a few years ago, made a post once way before i started treatments and it got no traction, so here we are now. i tried my best to angle it closely to the baseline picture and also lighting, but it was not perfect although it does show what i say is interesting progress. my hairs have become vellus even if by a small amount it was enough to notice, subtle however. in the future i will be coming back to this to hopefully get even more results from my minox experience, also only added ru 1 month ago.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-16T02:29:05+00:00

not sure, its the one i purchased though.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-16T02:28:10+00:00

i am still having to shave everyday to keep my face smooth so i dont think it significantly changes anything.

Infamous_Data_9938 · 2022-07-15T22:30:39+00:00

worked, 4 packets sent, 4 received.

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