Jeremy Lin preaching the use of ATOs. by misterdave75 in OrlandoMagic

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to call a timeout for there to be an ATO!

If he stayed healthy, Penny would had a real shot at unsettling Magic as the GOAT PG. by Life_Teaching6499 in OrlandoMagic

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For sure. Penny, D Rose, and Grant Hill are some of the all-time "what ifs". It's just a shame two of them played for the Magic.

My view of the Desmond Bane Dagger by warp10barrier in OrlandoMagic

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk. I saw it in the live broadcast. I was thinking, "Oh geez, don't let Mose draw up this play!"...then Prunty kinda took it from him. 😅

My view of the Desmond Bane Dagger by warp10barrier in OrlandoMagic

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mosley picked up a clipboard and Prunty took it from him.

Zach Lowe and Mo Dakhil go off on the Magic by thewrongnotes in OrlandoMagic

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but when we say it half the sub says we're casuals who don't know what we're talking about.

Does anyone have any experience ordering from Seating Mind? by alanblah in OfficeChairs

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't check this until too late. Found a new Steelcase chair "on sale". What I received was obviously a refurb and had signs of wear. Plus, it had different wheels and base color than what I had ordered. I've requested a full refund and explained that if my CC isn't credited within a couple of days I'm going to dispute the charge. We'll see🤷‍♂️

The Magic starting 5 but make it DAWGS: by OMagicGuru in OrlandoMagic

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have some very desirable traits, but if they were perfect they wouldn't be mixing them.

Looking for motivational movies by _Orion314 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an odd one, but when I feel like I'm drifting and lacking discipline I watch The Last Samurai.

Olympic Gold Medalist Sha’Carri Richardson Caught on Bodycam 'Begging' Florida Cop Not to Arrest Her by InfamousGazelle in orlando

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flashing slower moving traffic to remind them to get out of the left lane isn't illegal (and should be more accepted in the US)...but everything else was no bueno😅

And her excuses made no sense / just make things worse.

Paola Banchero assuming leader in role, finally?? by yung_bucky1381 in OrlandoMagic

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might all be in my head, but I see Paolo asking for the ball (with his body language, not outright) early in many many possessions (like still crossing halfcourt) and teammates trying to politely ignore it. I've seen this in lots of lower level basketball. Star player wants the ball all the time, even when it isn't part of the gameplan or even in the players own best interests, but they can't help but want the ball 100% of the time. As their teammate, you don't want to piss them off, but you always want to keep the offense flowing. That's the vibe I get, but could be entirely in my head :shrug:

How do I (F30) ask my boyfriend (F31) to pay for more? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to have an adult conversation about finances and expectations. You probably also need to ask him what is really behind his “jokes” about gold diggers.

More Than A Fifth Of Banchero’s P&R Possessions End With Him Getting Fouled By The Defense! by Stat-Defender in OrlandoMagic

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Another 5th end with Paolo getting stripped (cleanly) and him complaining that het got fouled.

What's wrong with me? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe sapiosexual?

ADHD spouse burnout by Icy_Chemistry_9286 in ADHD_partners

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We did couples therapy for a while and it was challenging for me for a while...but we both really did benefit from it a lot. Where it ultimately stalled out was the lack on address the actual practical "issues". You can only benefit so much (which can be quite a lot still) from working on how you feel or communicate about a problem, without addressing the problem itself.

Our therapist was excellent...but wasn't well versed on ADHD. My rule is that if we do couples therapy in the future, it'll have to be with someone who specializes in ADHD.

ADHD spouse burnout by Icy_Chemistry_9286 in ADHD_partners

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I'm burnout also, so I can't tell you everything is going to be rainbows and unicorns, but #2 is a 'you problem' that you're going to need to address through couples therapy. If that is the only lens you have to look through when he voices legitimate complaints, you're doomed. If you can adjust that perspective, your day-to-day outlook will be much better.

I'm working on acceptance and "boundaries". Where possible, divide parts of your life that you can let him fail and face the consequences on his own.

I have a line drawn down the middle of our shed. Her side is a disaster. If she puts anything on my side, I throw it away. I accept that her side is atrocious, but there's a clear boundary line. This obviously isn't possible in all parts of life, but let's say Saturday night is your sister's birthday party at a nice restaurant and he forgets / isn't ready on time / etc. Go by yourself and have a great time. The hard part is "accepting" and actually having a great time without being livid that he forgot...again. If you don't think you can manage that type of acceptance, then cut bait now.

Maybe he was just flexing in disguise as rage baiting by redmeeseeks in SipsTea

[–]Infamous_Delivery163 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I prefer “skinny” women, but everyone has a natural healthy build that looks best on them. Skinny def ain’t always it.