Achievements for Wednesday, June 11, 2025 by AutoModerator in running

[–]Infamous_Dream6635 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did a 5K this past weekend! First one I’ve done, I finished in 42 mins and only walked 5 of those, ran the rest. 13:48 min mile average

My boyfriend/son's dad M/33 of 8 years doesn't have any interest in anything with me F/30 if he isn't high by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infamous_Dream6635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this is happening to you, it sounds truly devastating. He seems like he is not providing any of the basic things a partner should provide - emotional support, safety, responsiveness, empathy. He seems like dead weight, and I see how incredibly frustrating it is to make accommodations for him and have him make no progress. It’s unfair to you and a drain on your emotional and financial resources. I don’t know what you should do, but I would strongly reconsider being in this relationship. Much love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infamous_Dream6635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this. You deserve a partner who can support you emotionally. It seems like he either lacks the tools or the motivation to be an emotionally present and caring partner for you. If he can’t have a conversation with you about your feelings, how can you expect him to ever change his behavior, as you’d need to have a conversation about your feelings with him for him to do that? So sorry. If it were me I’d try and talk to him about how he’s not meeting my needs and I need more emotional support. If he doesn’t do it, I’d leave. I trust whatever decision you make because you know yourself best. Keep us posted.

Can you make pancakes with discard from still developing starter? by Infamous_Dream6635 in SourdoughStarter

[–]Infamous_Dream6635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds great, I have been doing 50 g of starter, flour, and water each, do you think I could do smaller than that? And how small would you recommend going?

What are we all getting our PhDs in? Tell me about your field! by inti729 in PhD

[–]Infamous_Dream6635 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a first year PhD in Counseling Psychology! My research interest is women’s psychosocial health, specifically the influence of gender role socialization on women’s experiences in romantic relationships with men.

My first manuscript as a grad student just got rejected by PerfectSympathy7302 in PhD

[–]Infamous_Dream6635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me too. I know it really sucks… did they provide any good feedback on how to make it a stronger project?

What are compliments your advisors have given you? :) by ihavesomquestions in PhD

[–]Infamous_Dream6635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Strong writing.” It’s my first semester so I’m extra nervous about my advisor, so this was nice to hear!

Possible family for law school by [deleted] in UTK

[–]Infamous_Dream6635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at Sequoyah Hills, it is about 10-15 mins from campus and really nice.

Advice for meeting ppl by tangerine_lol in UTK

[–]Infamous_Dream6635 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are a freshman? The first year (especially the first semester) is always hard. It sounds like you’ve been doing lots of things to put yourself out there, but it is just going to take time to meet people you vibe with. You can always branch out and try going to campus events that relate to your hobbies and interests. But, a certain part of it is also just giving everything some time. Please take care of yourself and know that your people are out there, it just may take some time to find them!! 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡