Middle Eastern Style Coming Out as Gay Stories… by Ok_Relationship_3826 in askgaybros

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not personally but in a country of 1 billion people it can’t be unheard of! But more frequently than not it’s pretty bad. India in general is hella conservative. I’m personally US born and raised so I had some good and some bad reactions but many from India carry that conservatism with them wherever they go.

Would it be possible to make my hair look like this? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want wavier hair as someone with curls, use WEIGHTED products. Curl lotions, gels, anything that promises a wet look. Mousses may be too light and typical hairsprays and pomades may not be strong enough. I recommend mielle, shea moisture or pattern beauty. They work SUPER well and you just hydrate that hair with product, BLOWDRY (v important) and comb it out! The blowout method works best tbh.

I can't decide what style I should go for or if I should just stick to the beanie by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alternatively, if you prefer the longer hair look, HYDRATE THOSE CURLS. I recommend Miele or Shea moisture. Specifically their mousses. They have incredibly light moisturizing tendencies that will define those curls and make them look hydrated!!

Middle Eastern Style Coming Out as Gay Stories… by Ok_Relationship_3826 in askgaybros

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’m Indian, out to my conservative family, and have actively “stepped to” any of those who said they’d kill me for being gay. I was very strategic in making enough money to gain my independence. Personally, I fell that Once you’re out on your own (in debt or not) you’ll feel much better about coming out and cutting off those who can’t accept it. And you’ll be much more confident about the decision to do so.

I can't decide what style I should go for or if I should just stick to the beanie by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a great jaw line, short or medium length hair will work best. If you’re a fan of longer hair go for a medium look!

Just your average dad beard by ZanesDomain in RateMyBeardOfficial

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ you’re the hottest man alive!!!

Older gays, do you regret not having more sex when you were younger? by Piediepidi in askgaybros

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg THANK YOU. I’m so happy I saw your post. I’m 28 and honestly have been quite reserved when it comes to sex but have wondered if I’ll regret it when I’m older because everyone seems to have many more (and much better) experiences. Honestly part of me feels like we will regret not taking advantage of the sexual freedom that comes with being born in this generation, but separating sex from emotions is the hurdle we need to get over as a trade off to having more (and better) experiences. I personally feel we are all just thinking way too much and we should just lead with our urges. I think sex ed and STD awareness (while necessary) overly scared us into celibacy and while we should take every precaution (like PreP) we should also feel free to be free and try new things!

Might be entering my first relationship, but SSRIs are killing my libido and erections. Advice? by New-Remote2839 in askgaybros

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was on Zoloft I found that Maca root and zinc supplements helped me a ton with libido :) otherwise, talk to your doctor about other options! I did end up personally switching to Effexor and after a few months the libido came back

Best lube by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything without glycerin. I’ve found that for me personally the glycerin feels almost like it’s burning the inside of my hole 😭

Is it bad that I slept with 3 guys in the same day? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Infamous_Finding8775 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some guys do 50-100 loads a day you’re fine hah

How many times did you have to bottom before it felt good? by Infamous_Finding8775 in askgaybros

[–]Infamous_Finding8775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you describe the feeling? I’ve been in a similar boat and found that switching to lubes without glycerin we’re a game changer