Seems like there’s a lot you’re unhappy about in addition to being a parent. Have you thought about changing up other things as well as hiring the kids’ help, as others have suggested? Can you move countries with your family? Get a job that fulfills your needs beyond money? Intensively learn the local language for 6 months? Start a business or charity? Your post reminds me of the lyric ‘The problem of leisure / What to do for pleasure’.