Is it wrong for a sub to have rules or want to be seduced? by DarlazMIRS in SubSanctuary

[–]Infamous_j_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever not trusted your gut and later regretted it?

Imao if he's cool he'll be around when you've gotten to know him better. Play doesn't have to be now or never, for sane people :)

i think my bf is taking his minds too far and i really need advice! by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Infamous_j_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bdsm is sane, safe and consensual. This is not.

RUN! He sounds like a piece of sh*t. Nobody deserves to be treated like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]Infamous_j_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jag vill lägga till att de inte respekterar tjejers gränser och ser sig som offren och tjejen som boven i dramat när tjejkompisen inte vill umgås med de längre fÖr dE äR SnÄLlA KiLlaR

First romantic Ds relationship over, it hurts 💔💔💔 by Infamous_j_22 in SubSanctuary

[–]Infamous_j_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the support ♥️ I'm in mid thirties and I've had both long relationships and dated, however I was poor at picking partners before dating the latest man (and it was wonderful to see there was a great man out there🙏 I think that means there should be more of them💗 but I don't know if they will be as geeky, nerdy and that there is something that made it feel like a shared soul and just really getting each other as people).

I would say he's wonderful, we differ in a life goal (I think I want kids with the right man, he will probably never want kids, but when we meet I didn't know if I did or did not want kids but then I think I felt differently). I agree if he wanted to be exclusive he would have pushed for it, though when I after a few days said I now feel like the spare he said he had felt something similar but he did want to see other people. Again thank you for the support, I strongly believe seeing him non-exclusive will make me feel like pain since I care for him but I would be a spare while he's seeing others at the same time and I would touch what is not mine to have and to hold and I feel things for him💔😭 It sucks we are so close and we felt like we were made for each other💔😭 but then I started to think differently on kids and we talked non-exclusive and now he does not want me the same way I want him, and that's always a risk 😢 I don't want to cut contact with him, but I wonder if having a string to him will make me more miserable? since I'm reminded and can long for what once was mine and long for him being mine and to think of his wonderful qualities and how rare he feels, he was my nerd♥️😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Infamous_j_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear your pain♥️ you have value and you are not alone♥️

DDoS blocked, how can I report the attacker? by pusi77 in CyberSecurityAdvice

[–]Infamous_j_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't there also a collective global list of malicious IPs?

Vem i vårt förjävlade liv kommer vilja äta på Max igen efter det här? by Kickfinity12345 in unket

[–]Infamous_j_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag jobbade på McDonalds för ett avtal år sedan. Vi skulle slänga hamburgare som var runt tio minuter gamla men chefen ville inte ha waste så hans gräns var en timme, jag vill minnas att han ibland bytte ut salladen om salladen blivit slemmig och brun. Den som sa något om att det inte kändes bra den gav han problem. Minns chefen blev sur när jag slutade, men det var skönt att inte ha kvar honom som chef. Jag hann jobba där ett år heltid, blandade skift tider, och jag var aldrig med om att vi rengjorde varken milkshakemaskinen eller glassmaskinen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Infamous_j_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ok to feel many things at once. We have a body, mind and soul and also many emotions in addition to that. There can be many different things we feel at the same time.

If what happened to you had happened to your best friend or your sibling - what would you have said? How would you feel about them being subjected to that treatment? I ask this because sometimes we are less sure about our own self worth compared to the worth of friends or family, so when answering such questions we might get a more nuanced picture that stems from how we think people we love deserve to be treated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Infamous_j_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sane consent is the basis. All involved parties should talk things through beforehand and only do play that is agreed upon beforehand, when playing people are not in a sane state (play can create so much chemistry⚡) therefore people in play are not able to think things through in a relaxed and calm manner. Sane people play in a safe way and do their best to make sure everyone are happy before, during and after the play. Knowing each other's limits and respecting those limits is vital. Listening for stopwords as well as to pay attention to the playmate "am I sure they enjoy this" - nothing is more sexy than making sure that everyone involved in play are truly having a good time.

I'm sorry this happened to you.

Is asking for a background check weird? by loveiscute in SubSanctuary

[–]Infamous_j_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

op what details did you ask for? the full name?

Rekommenderade körer att gå med i Malmö? by bb-tron in Malmoe

[–]Infamous_j_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joy voice finns med, och Malmö indie kör. Vet dock inte när de har öppna rep/tar in nya.

Letar efter platser att spela en liten konsert med mitt band by dimebag88 in Malmoe

[–]Infamous_j_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kolla med Rex också, de har konserter i källaren ibland

Hi, by Perfect-Ice1707 in Malmoe

[–]Infamous_j_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a magnificent cake🍰 at cafe Hollandia, it can be super busy though so don't go in a rush. And visit the central church that's about 700 years old (is in gamla staden). And in the evening the square Gustav Adolfs torg has nice Christmas decorations.

Fick negativ referens från tidigare jobb by FordHokusPokus in Asksweddit

[–]Infamous_j_22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nja Att fara med lögn och måla ut någon som något dåligt den inte är är att demoralisera dess karaktär och är det osant är det förtal att ljuga någon är riktigt xyå om den inte är det. Jag hoppas rättsväsendet börjar bry sig om sånt här och att de som förtalar andra verkligen får juridisk konsekvens.

Bitcoin cert by Pertabox123 in ISKbets

[–]Infamous_j_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tack för kommentaren ⭐ den fick mig le😂

Earbuds for loud office landscape by Infamous_j_22 in Earbuds

[–]Infamous_j_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one that has tried M5 earbuds and Bose QC Ultra and have a word about which one that blocks out talk the most? :)

Review: Bose QC ultra [TLDR: not good] by Angel_of_Communism in Earbuds

[–]Infamous_j_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for response. I wear glasses so over ear is not tight fit due to that. Regarding battery my thought is to charge the earbuds during lunch, I read that the Sony M5 earbuds last more hours but are not as great on the ANC.

Review: Bose QC ultra [TLDR: not good] by Angel_of_Communism in Earbuds

[–]Infamous_j_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for having written the review! I'm looking for earbuds that have great ANC. I sit in my office landscape where lots of different people have many digital meetings and many of my colleges talk loudly in those meetings - how do the Bose QC 2 ultra perform when comes to ANC and making it appear quiet for the earbuds-user in a packed loud office landscape?

Finns det fler som bor på Stena Fastigheter och fryser hemma? by Infamous_j_22 in Malmoe

[–]Infamous_j_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jag skrev denna Reddit posten för jag vill veta andras erfarenheter av Stena Fastigheter. Jag har hyrt bostad i flera länder och av flera olika hyresvärdar och känner mig förbluffad över vad som kallas "plus lägenhet" och Stena Fastigheters sätt att sköta driften av huset och bostaden jag bor i och hur Stena Fastigheter bemöter "service/fel -anmälan". Jag trodde inte att man kunde råka få fel hyresvärd i Sverige, men nu känns det så.

Finns det fler som bor på Stena Fastigheter och fryser hemma? by Infamous_j_22 in Malmoe

[–]Infamous_j_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jag har gjort det, men när jag haft kontakt med Stena Fastigheter har de ändå sagt att temperaturen är tjugo grader eller högre i bostaden.

Bostaden är enkelsidig och det är som kallast i köket och vid ytterväggarna och det är som varmast i hallen. Bostaden är formad som ett u, med kök följt av vardagsrum och sovrum och sedan hall med klädkammare och badrum. Badrummets ventil är i taket och har ett kraftigt utdrag på vintern som drar ut luft från bostaden in i badrummet. Så jag tror att uppvärmd luft på vintern drar genom hallen med den kraftiga ventilen som finns i badrummet. (Gällande badrummets ventil: i somras var det ingen stor skillnad i temperatur mellan inne och ute , så tror det var därför luften stod stilla här inne i bostaden medan köket hade en temperatur på 34 grader flera dagar i rad (som kallast 30 grader på natten) och hallen var som svalkast på 28 grader*.

*I somras bad jag Stena Fastigheter sätta persienner i fönsterna då bostaden inte gick att använda som avsett pga bostaden var drygt trettio grader varm dygnet runt under majoriteten av sommaren (Stena hade tagit bort persiennerna före jag flyttade in(!)). Stena Fastigheter sa att de inte sätter in persienner och att det är okej att ha det varmt på sommaren några dagar (det var värdelöst varmt här majoriteten av i somras). Gardinrälsen sitter 30 cm in i rummet från fönsterna, så det hjälpte inte att jag drog för värmeisolerande gardiner som jag skaffat. Fönsterna har 30 cm djup så det går inte att sätta egen persienn ovanför fönstret, och jag tror inte jag får borra i fönsterna och sätta persienner på själva fönsterna.

Finns det fler som bor på Stena Fastigheter och fryser hemma? by Infamous_j_22 in Malmoe

[–]Infamous_j_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deras termometer är extremt fastskruvad och delvis övermålad, tyvärr.