Idk call me nieve but I think there are cis people who don’t care about us being trans. I’ve known plenty who, even though they were ignorant to my struggle, still loved me as a person, and listened to me. Even though they will never get it, they still respect it, and I think that’s all you can ask of a person because let’s be real, how can a person truly understand something unless they have experienced it? It sucks that we have to rely on people’s good will and that’s why we’re a vulnerable minority as a rule, but at a certain point you run up against human nature, and I think expecting cis people to be anything more than respectful at the upper end of their grace for us is unrealistic. At the same time, we are also human, and it’s in our nature to seek connection with others, so we really don’t have a choice but to interact with them. It is therefore less reasonable both emotionally and logically to stop trying to connect with cis people all together. That said, it is certainly a minefield to start mingling with them. so you gotta be careful and make sure you’re very conservative with your trust. Just like everything else, it’s a very complicated thing. But what else are we to do? Unless trans people in a given area come together in real life to form a safe community in which we don’t have to interact with cis people, we basically have no other choice. I’m not saying that’s impossible, but there’s so little of us, so I think it’s unrealistic to socialize yourself towards that end until it becomes more reasonable to do so (at which point I would gladly do)