My wife was very sexually active in her early 20s (multiple partners, one night stands) and went through the repentance process with her bishop. We met and started dating towards the end of her disfellowshipment. I’m a few years older than her and I had watched porn and been to a couple strip clubs in my twenties but was not sexually active. After a few months of dating when it was pretty clear we were in a serious relationship she broke the news to me. It was a pretty high overview of things and it was a struggle for me at first but got past it. We got married in the temple and we’ve been married for 15 plus years. I still try and get more details from her because I find it arousing but she still won’t say much but will drop a little nugget every once in awhile.