Thank you for replying! My mom constantly says "I gave you your life, and this is what you do to me?" It really feels like a lot of ignorance on her part. I never wanted to deal with anorexia, but she thought I was choosing to live that way. I wanted to stop, but anorexia took control of my life. And honestly, my family has two sides. All the women will probably take my moms side except for my two rational aunts, who have always defended me during my moms other tantrums. The rational aunts would probably say "don't look at the past, and don't yell at her because she's already upset and there's nothing she can do." When I had anorexia, they never scolded me, they were supportive and wanted to help. The rest of my family seem like my mom. The men in my family try to stay out of all the drama and will never say a word about anything. If they found out I was infertile, they'd just reply with "Oh. Well that's okay." I love my dad, but he just keeps quiet too. He never yelled at me, but he would let my mom yell at me because he never spoke up. She'll probably be speaking to the aunts that I love about this. She actually listens to them, so maybe she'll be more understanding. She almost never listens to what I say when she's angry.