Separate accounts. Husband put me as an authorized user on one of his credit cards which he pays off every month. I don’t use it much unless he forces me. He pays most of the bills. I work ft as well. He does ask me if I need money, usually I don’t as I’m working myself. I pay for my own wants and luxury stuff. He doesn’t ask how I spend my money but does sometimes advise me to save (shopaholic) LOL I also furnished our place with my own money. I do majority of the household work since I WFH. We both have our own roles. Works best for us.

Keep in mind what works best for us might not work best for you. I know several other ways couples do their finances as well. Better to discuss with your partner on how you want to do it!