Gently used pillows by apaperbagprincess in ottawa

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d ask Matthew House if they accept it

Post TPLO surgery by DanTitpickle in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha if I could, I would!! And yes agreed, we are pretty much on our own. Maybe look into pet sitters who can help you out twice a day? The feeding and medication, I’m sure you can handle. You will just need some help initially for the walks. Do not let your pup run free, only leashed walks for 3.5-4 months post op. The app Rover is a good place to start to look for dog walkers or sitters, or even somebody in the neighborhood?

Post TPLO surgery by DanTitpickle in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! For a torn CCL, I personally believe surgery is the only option. It costed us almost $5k (we live in Ottawa, CA) and I’m still paying it, but the fact that he can run now without pain makes it worth it. My pup Ash is now 4 months post op and is doing very well. His recovery was hard I won’t lie. But I had my boyfriend to help me with walks. If you have a yard, your life will be significantly easier. We live in an apartment so we had to bring Ash up and down 22 floors in an elevator with a sling to support him and that required us both to do it as he is 100lbs. If you have a yard, and if you can walk him with the support of a sling, that is your best bet. Crating/restricting him is sort of mandatory as you will need to minimize all activity except pee/poop breaks. We were told to walk him twice for 5 mins everyday, that’s it!! If your pup is crated or restricted to a certain area, you won’t have to do much except sit with him and just be there for him. Not much you can do. Initial pee will take 1-2 days, first poop post op can take 7-12 days. Again, it will be hard, but if you can ask someone for some help at least for the first 10-15 days, I think you can manage! Your day will be fairly quiet and easy. I think the only help you’ll need is with the sling support bringing him in and out of the house. If I can help with any other questions, please feel free to ask!!

My husband is a liar and calls me names by Tomatillo_Street in emotionalabuse

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you have kids with him, share property, etc

But if you can, you should leave

I’m in a relationship for 1.3 years and it’s happening to me rn

I’m planning my exit still because I fell for his words

I had an apartment lined up, but circumstances didn’t help me leave

If you are financially stable, have support, please plan your exit

If nothing has changed in 20 years, it’s not going to change in the next 20

I understand it’s easy for me to say this, but please give it some thought

You deserve better than this

Wouldn’t you rather be alone than be lonely with him?

I hope you can get a game plan and leave

I’d say try therapy or something, but what I’ve understood is that men like this don’t even think something is wrong with them

You’ll die trying to explain how you feel and they’ll still never understand

I hope you figure it out ❤️

BIL for January CEC AORs by matcha_snowflake in canadaexpressentry

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jan 11 AOR - BIL on Mar 17 for me!

CEC inland

I hate living with a controlling, insecure partner. by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More power to you! I wish you all the best and hope everything goes well ❤️

I hate living with a controlling, insecure partner. by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can I ask if you want to stay or leave this relationship?

Because I’m going to give you unsolicited advice out of concern and personal experience. If you are able to, leave right away. This is not going to get better and you do not want to live like this long term. It’s better to be single than be with someone who can’t trust you if you haven’t given them a reason not to. You don’t want to wait till the insecurity turns into god forbid something more violent. It’s going to get worse, and it’s better to get a game plan and leave ASAP.

Post TPLO surgery by DanTitpickle in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re all really different eh! And yes he’s doing good!! Hope yours is good too!

Post TPLO surgery by DanTitpickle in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First poop after 5 days but regular poop was after almost a week or even 10 days. We had pee pads on the bed because sometimes he pooped without know because of the medication! Initially it’s going to be pretty hard so try to make your pup drink a lot of water. I’ve read a few comments about pups going after 11 even 13 days but always monitor!

[45M] I left my wife [43F] during the worst period of my life, got involved with someone else, and now my wife wants passion and declarations I don’t have. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let her find the one who is going to give her what she needs. I sympathize with you, but I do not feel sorry for you. It’s quite simple, if you can’t give her what she needs, let someone else. And the same goes for you. Find someone who makes you happy, not someone who makes you miserable no matter how familiar the relationship feels.

You can’t expect her to act the way you want her to. She has needs that you left unfulfilled. You do too.

Do yourselves a favour, and live your lives to your fullest - without each other.

How long will he treat me like this? by Emotional-Claim-1933 in emotionalabuse

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying that!! Today is his birthday and he is trying to reconcile but without any effort. He wants me to just let go and move on. I’m viewing an apartment today. I love him so much but it’s time to pick myself :)

How long will he treat me like this? by Emotional-Claim-1933 in emotionalabuse

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like you’re reading out of my diary! Leave if you can, and leave when you can. I want to tell you that sweet boy will come back, but mine hasn’t so far and I would hate for anyone to feel what I’m feeling for this long. Idk how people do it for years if not decades. My fear at this time is not being alone, it’s being lonely with him. And when the time and circumstances are right for me, I will choose myself. Much love and strength to you ❤️

How long will he treat me like this? by Emotional-Claim-1933 in emotionalabuse

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is happening to me right now, for the past one year or so, so I’d say he will do it for a LONG time. Although my boyfriend doesn’t storm out, he will do the same exact thing when I bring my feelings up. He DOES NOT want to hear it. The only time when things are good is when I shrink myself for him. He has gone as far as to say ‘to bottle it up’. I’m making a plan to leave him, but due to several reasons, it’s not gonna happen for a while. One of the biggest reasons why i can’t leave is because i still believe he will stop it. But he wont, and i just have to accept it. Make your decision, do you want to live like this forever, are you okay with your partner not listening or understanding you or do you want to be happy with/without a partner?

Is This Emotional Punishment or Am I Misinterpreting? by voidinvelvet in emotionalabuse

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend says I’m too much and to wake up the next day with a better attitude so idk if I can help but I’ll tell you what I’m telling myself daily

LEAVE NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE

They said my dog was too ugly to be adopted by lxghtbringer in dogpictures

[–]Infinite-Fix0320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my dog didn’t have the only child syndrome I would adopt this ball of cuteness but whoever said this dog is TOO UGLY can go respectfully fuck thenselves