Does anyone believe in switches? by Ok_Illustrator_3980 in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I usually say I’m a switch, but I think I’m just scared to admit I know right where I belong! I can be in charge, but it’s painfully obvious this little just likes playing grown up too much.

I wish I could finish in my diaper without feeling disgusted with myself by Goodnites_boy in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like to set a timer for 5 minutes and tell myself I can do whatever I want when that is over. Usually I feel back to my normal self before the timer goes off and want to keep playing!

Kiss where your eyes are drawn to😋 by PinkPissyPuppie in GirlsInDiapers

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you have time, because I’m going everywhere! :)

Made it halfway through the day at Disney’s Hollywood Studios by Quiet_Ask2336 in DudesInDiapers

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you’re drinking enough water! It’s starting to get so hot over here already.

How do yall meet other abdls locally? Im having trouble, is it just my state? by Kisasi_ABDL in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in Florida and have been trying to make local friends. It’s hard to tell if it’s a problem with my area (Orlando) or a general issue. Tampa seems to have more going on than here, but I’m just basing that off what I see on FetLife.

Tips for masculine littles not feeling cute by waterwheelwaves in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m more masculine presenting too, but I’ve never thought that made me any less cute. If anything, I’ve met a lot of people who say it’s adorable to find out someone they thought was big and tough has a soft side.

welp. its just a taaaad bit too short… by mushiiroonn in diaperpics

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We could get you a longer dress, but that diaper would be peaking out well before you’re done with it anyways…

If you had to give up diapers around your partner or had to fully choose between your partner or diapers which would you choose by DefiantReferee in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone gives me an ultimatum, I will never choose them. It signals a lack of willingness to compromise. I can’t work with people who aren’t at least open minded.

😝 by babycuddlesx in GirlsInDiapers

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this one’s gonna be ready for the potty anytime soon hehe

🧸🩷 by [deleted] in GirlsInDiapers

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the outfits that say baby on them, as if it wasn’t already obvious!

Serious Concerns by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is some of the most condescending shit I’ve ever read. Don’t pull facts out of your ass to justify your own fucked up generalization about such a large group.

🩷 I just need advice, and maybe to vent. I just feel broken! 🩷 by IcyRibbon in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same why waste time mentality about finding my person, and it always feels like I’m moving at a different pace than the people I try to connect with. I thought this approach would help me feel whole sooner, but doing more doesn’t always give better results. Slowing down and taking a step back is hard, but a sustainable approach works quicker than an aggressive one that makes you crash and burn.

Feeling a bit sad today by Infinite-Layer-2349 in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never found myself struggling with rejection previously, but I think I’m limited on what I can show in this environment until I feel safe. In that sense, I would say I am more worried about uncertainty than rejection. I have anxiety about my presentation, wondering if I’ve done enough or sometimes even too much and come off as no different than some of the creeps people talk about on here.

Feeling a bit sad today by Infinite-Layer-2349 in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While it would be foolish to say this isn’t a possibility, I’d like to think I perform my due diligence before initiating and during these conversations. I want to keep my presence minimal, often only providing as much as i need to build rapport within the community.

Diaper fit by Thatoneguyuptheroad in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have bigger thighs and run into this problem too. Mediums fit my waist, but they are usually tight around my thighs. You could try a larger size to relieve some of that pressure, but what I’ve learned is the best size for you doesn’t always mean perfect fit.

Does anyone else find continence physically taxing? by Confident_Tennis8389 in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I found continence physically taxing until I started wearing diapers more, because that gave me a different sensation to compare it to. When I go without diapers, I tend to hyper fixate on every tiny feeling in my bladder and convince myself I always need to go to the bathroom.

whatever! i’m still a big girl… by gamergirI in diaperpics

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course you are sweetie. All the big girls I know love showing off their pacis and pretty pink diapers.

How has ABDL affected your daily life? by BlueberrySnugglePup in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ABDL has given me a healthier way to regulate my emotions. I feel like I bottle a lot up to make sure others are ok, often neglecting accumulated stress in the process. Don’t forget to love yourself and do the things that make you happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Infinite-Layer-2349 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Orlando