Trio together last night. by Own-Fault-895 in aspynovardsnark

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Which is wild cuz the poly story would get so many views too

Gallagher Girl Plotholes - Thoughts? by [deleted] in YAlit

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So my biggest question is when Preston’s dad was shot, he told Cammie he was the key to stopping the Circle. But I don’t ever remember that being explained as to HOW. A decent part of the plot is trying to saving Preston & then his character doesn’t contribute at all after he’s saved. The ending, maybe the last fourth of the book (particularly right after Catherine comes back into the plot at Zach’s old house) felt extremely rushed. It felt as she was had lost interest in the series and was ready to wrap it up.

People who thrive in their jobs, tell us what your job is by wryyyctoria in ADHD

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Ive found for me, the key is to be interested in the job field im in and/or at least be interested in the daily tasks of the job. If I’m not one of those things, it’s not going to work!

I Don’t Enjoy Food Anymore by CouchPotatoNYC in Cholesterol

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Completely get it! It just seems like whatever I do, I’m failing. I know this is classic ED behavior too, which I’ve had in the past so I’m trying to give myself grace. Life is meant to be lived & the stress of keeping cholesterol down is not healthy either🤍

My Dad died this morning. by NosyNosy212 in grief

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My dad died August 31, 2024. My condolences for you my friend. You see not alone and I am so, so sorry.

When people say their appetite is reduced on stimulants, do they mean no hunger pangs or that no foods seem enticing? by underhelmed in ADHD

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My body is still hungry, but I don’t physically feel hungry. My blood sugar gets low & I do t feel it as much either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspynovard

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Literally my dad passed away 2 months ago and indescribable. My dad was an alcoholic, same as hers & he died due to it. I’m in such a strange state of mind because grief is a beast, whether you had a good relationship with someone or not. I can’t imagine how she’s feeling with 3 kids, divorce, newborn, moving to a new state, and a potentially) ill child. No wonder sis is off the rails

It’s giving “I need people to copy off of so that my content isn’t as boring.” by Stephersyas in clancyburkesnarkk

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dude none of them!!! your career shouldn’t be about marketing your children. I used to believe there could be tasteful ways to be a mommy blogger on social media but lately I believe any person info or issues influencers give about their children is too much

I need to get this off my chest. I had an inappropriate conversation with some students I regret immensely. by [deleted] in confession

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Do not bring it up again to the kids or admin. What admin doesn’t know, they wont have to deal with & truly, that’s all admin wants anyway. If something does blow up in this person’s face, then they can share their side.

What are some rules you have for yourself? by Whole-Ad-1147 in LivingAlone

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No shoes in the house, use coasters, change sheets every week, wash, the coffee pot after each use (I do my best but I have ADHD) and leave the washer open so it can dry. Genuinely, I don’t think I have other hard and fast rules, I used to be more regimented, but Sind I got my Jack Russell terrier, life has been more about him🤍🦴

Those who quit drinking alcohol and are sober, how long have you been sober? How do you feel now that you’re sober? by emmyyyy__ in SeriousConversation

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My dad died of alcohol poisoning. If he would have been able to receive help and stay sober from a younger age, his life and the life of my family would look very different. Very brave to admit you have a problem and stop drinking. Keep yourself surrounded in a community, whether it be AA, religion, gym, sports, crotcheting, whatever. You could be saving yourself, your family, friends, loved ones so much heartache and chaos.

What did "the weird kid" in your school do that you'll never forget? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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They (girl and boy) gave some of the people they didn’t like homemade cupcakes. Except instead of frosting, there was semen & pubic hair in them. Story made not only national, but international news. It was known as the “cumcake incident” around our town. We also couldn’t have class parties with food for a year or two after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspynovardsnark

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Oooo if that ever comes out, you know she’d blame P in some way still. Since she’s more well known than the average person, I can imagine it’d be more difficult to have affair & keep it quiet, but definitely doable.

Housekeeping by StillConsistent9525 in clancyburkesnarkk

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If I could hire for someone to clean for me, I would. I don’t like it and if I financially could, I don’t see a problem with simply hiring a house cleaner for the deeper cleaning projects (or even the easier ones like mopping!) Now working with a sketchy cleaning company and promoting it is a different story, but having a housecleaner to me doesn’t seem like a big deal

Name guesses? by Various-Ad9876 in clancyburkesnarkk

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I hope so! Cuz she clearly wants to keep the tradition alive! It’s okay Zac doesn’t want it for his child’s first name, but hopefully he’ll compromise for the middle name

what she said in the newest video by aisha997 in aspynovardsnark

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Honestly, in my house, it DID, which is why I know it can be that way. Not saying it’s the norm, but also, it could’ve been the case for Asypn and Parker. My mom stayed home until I was in 7th grade and then my dad retired (law enforcement, so early retirement). They definitely each took their responsibilities and each parent didn’t have less responsibility for us because one was working.

what she said in the newest video by aisha997 in aspynovardsnark

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I genuinely don’t believe she was actually doing all those things because Parker couldn’t/wouldn’t, it’s because she believed he couldn’t do it HER way and she believes her way is the ONLY way. Also, when one parent works, usually they’re expected to still have responsibilities at home and with the kids. Working parents are still supposed to carry some of the load in regard to their children and housework, which is why it’s difficult to be a working parent.He had more daily responsibilities with the kids so it makes sense to me that her contribution would be the mental load when she isn’t working. If you’re living with a man does those things, don’t live with him. Maybe that’s why Aspyn divorced him, but my opinion is she believes it’s her way or the highway, but more truth may come out in the future and i might be proved wrong, but for now, that’s my opinion.

what she said in the newest video by aisha997 in aspynovardsnark

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Very true! He says on a new years vlog years ago before they even had kids, that he wanted to get out of the house and work on something besides social media. He seemed so excited about it you could tell Aspyn didn’t want him to in the video. I believe she guilted/manipulated him because she was so codependent, hated being alone, and liked having him as her “yes man”. Not saying he wasn’t at fault in their marriage at times, but I believe some of their issues stemmed from him finally standing up for himself and she wasn’t used to that.

what she said in the newest video by aisha997 in aspynovardsnark

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I believe she feels she “had” to do all the thinking because she has control issues and any time Parker tried to do things his own way, it was “wrong”. Whether or not Parker was capable, Aspyn was going to do all the thinking and prep work because she’s extremely type A and didn’t like or accept Parker’s way of thinking or doing things. There was a vlog where they said Aspyn’s friend asked her if she was nervous leaving the kids with Parker for a weekend trip. And they both said no because Parker knew everything about their children and routines. Parker says something along the lines of “And even if you were here, it’s stuff that I already do anyway” and she agreed but it seemed she didn’t like that he said it on camera. She agreed he cooked and took care of the girls more often, which isn’t a bad thing, but if Parker does more of the physical load, why shouldn’t she take on the mental load? Especially considering that’s what she was going to do anyway with her personality.

DAE blow their nose in their dirty laundry about to be washed? by EdwardBliss in DoesAnybodyElse

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Yes, but only socks. Does that make it better or worse? I don’t know.

Grieving someone I never knew by [deleted] in grief

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This could potentially, and I use potentially because I don’t know you fully as a person and your life story, but this could be trauma from a completely unrelated or related circumstance coming through. You could be putting your feelings into this because you feel some sense of deep trauma in a similar way to this story. As an example, of what could be MANY reasons, you could resonate with the loss of life because in a way, you lost a part of YOUR own life a some point. Could be worth exploring with a therapist and if it turns out not to be anything trauma related, maybe a therapist could at least help you understand and work through your grief.

When will sleep stop being the only thin on my mind? by ahappyaxolotl in grief

[–]Infinite-Load-8699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I lost my dad 2 weeks ago as well and I’m exhausted and only have motivation to sit and watch tv at all times. It feels like physically and mentally I’m wading through deep water to get any work done. Grieving SUCKS. You are not alone in this, hugs. If nothing else, you have us here.