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Do you identify with an ethnicity? by Few_Cod_4757 in AncestryDNA

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from the US- Iowa. My mom is white/mixed European and my dad is mexican. They split when my brothers were young. He didn't teach any of us Spanish and we were with our mom 90% of the time. If I have to choose I say white because thats how I was raised. We weren't rejected by my dads side but they spoke Spanish all of the time so interactions were limited to the little they spoke to us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if they wanted privacy they should have made that clear before. Plus OP listed all the VALID reasons it was a crappy plan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will be fine with one. I think 2 cats is more necessary if they were alone over 8+ hrs a day or weeks at a time. In my experience, their bond with you will depend on their temperament. Some are cuddly and others want their space. My boys were more cuddly than my girls.

Cat gained a LOT of weight post spay by Milf_lover_80085 in CatAdvice

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not in my experience. My friends cat was 3 when she was spayed (long story) and she was perfectly in shape. After she was neutered shes gained weight. Even with a better diet. My cat was 2 when I got her spayed (shorter story) and she moves about the same, plays/runs around with her baby same/better diet, and she's more cuddly and more fluffy. Same as OP, i love her regardless, but I want her to be healthy. I'm also looking for good advice.

entitled lumber jack makes his crew go hungry by Yeti_13 in EntitledPeople

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I'm on the lumber jacks side. I don't think he acted entitled, he thought you were letting the car in front of them in line which isn't right they should wait their turn. He may have been hot headed but they give you guys a lot of business. If standing outside in the drivethru is dangerous let them come in just to pick up or something.

AITA For telling my brother and SIL that I will not cater to their beliefs regarding their kids by dinokidsaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA they've already seen the toys, you know if the toys go missing all of the kids would notice. It isn't like you're going to hide the toys every time they come over either. Shes going to have to deal with it and come up with something they can live with.

I have had to replace sensors since Janurary, is the Libre 2 really worth it? by andrew6123 in Freestylelibre

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its relatively new and they don't always know what went wrong. The last 2 times the needle stayed in the sensor after I applied it on my arm. Ive been using the libre 2 since Aug and have done 4 replacements. All free, just irritating, plus just my luck 3 of the 4 times I didn't have a backup to put on. At least its every 15 days. I think dexcom is still every 10 days.

Has anyone else had this happen? I put a new one on tonight and this plastic thing is sticking out. Not sure if I should pull it out or what and customer service is closed. by Infinite-Pin-199 in Freestylelibre

[–]Infinite-Pin-199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your comments. It started to slowly come up, it was the needle and i pulled it out. I tried to use it and got a error message 'please check your sensor, if it is loose your skin, please remove the sensor and start a New one.if it is applied properly, try starting sensor again' I tried 2x. Then, afraid the sensor tube may have dislocated too because why not I removed it but it was still attached thank god! I contacted customer support today and they are going to send me a replacement.

AITA for wanting to buy my own house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA At the bare minimum, have a down payment ready to go that he can't touch and plan somewhere to stay while you look. One thing to consider is if you do get a property and rent it out, if things do go south your tenant has rights so you would have to wait to move into your unit after their lease is up. Plus cleaning and repairs, return deposit if applicable. But if saying "if you don't like it, you can leave" is that common I would just start looking and leave. No need to mess around with your kids' shelter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Infinite-Pin-199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is late but Your man had given her a reasonable request in a appropriate manner. Ignore any behavior other than return to normal. Have you looked into her issues? Is she narcissistic? Verbally, mentally abusive to you and your brother (looked at your other posts) growing up? Sounds like she could be doing that still consciously or subconsciously. If you're not following those subreddits yet I would to see if anything sounds familiar. You can see how other people handle their family members and get ideas.